-- Posted by awexome at 1:16 am on July 10, 2009 Why is that? He said he jerked off a few times today, but this isn't the first time it's happened lately. Well, I'll admit..the other times he couldn't finish, we were either drunk or high. I know he's not cheating, please don't say something like that. Believe me, it is obvious. We've been dating a few years too, and he's a very kind-hearted & good boyfriend. I'm a good looking girl too. Not totally skinny...but not fat. And I actually DO my part in making sex enjoyable. I don't just lay there. But idk. When he can't finish, I feel like it's because I don't turn him on. I asked him that and he said that's definitely not the reason. I guess it could be anything. Most likely it's the fapping, right? -- Posted by Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 what if he just takes a while? takes me like 3 hours, 2 on a good day -- Posted by sub800 at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 he might be fappin prior to the sexin so he can last -- Posted by JamesBrauman at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009 Yes most likely. But I mean I have never come from sex or foreplay, I need to do it myself to be honest. -- Posted by laylow at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from sub800 at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 he might be fappin prior to the sexin so he can last tht works every time too! -- Posted by Clara Bell at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009 Sometimes it just happens. If it's a frequent problem, try exploring other ways to stimulate him. -- Posted by awexome at 1:19 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 what if he just takes a while? takes me like 3 hours, 2 on a good day We've been having sex for 2 years, usually it's 5 minutes to a half hour. -- Posted by rancid freakin rawk at 1:19 am on July 10, 2009 must be the fappin' check his junk out next time, see if it looks exercised beforehand -- Posted by Were X at 1:19 am on July 10, 2009 probably just takes a long time or as james brauman said -- Posted by Anonymous at 1:20 am on July 10, 2009 To be honest, I have this exact same problem. I have no clue what mental block I have against finishing. It means I can keep going for a while, but it's certainly less fun, and I kind of worry it won't go away... I technically have a fetish, so I sometimes think t hat might be part of the issue... and if your boyfriend is like me and has an equally strange one he might not be comfortable bringing it up. -- Posted by renegade riot at 1:20 am on July 10, 2009 he has problems -- Posted by i effing rock at 2:23 pm on July 10, 2009 Sometimes I cant cum. I can orgasm (the same sensation as cumming, just with out sperm coming out) but not cum.  Sometimes it feels good but nothing comes out.