-- Posted by Anonymous at 1:13 am on July 10, 2009 But shes not ready  and I can tell. we are only 16 and 17. but weve been in love for the past 4 years and are always talking about it and shes so happy when  we do talk about it shes the happiest person in the world. how do I convince myself she is ready? Ive already planned a perposal and everything. but I still doubt sometimes. Help me please -- Posted by guitargod1 at 1:14 am on July 10, 2009 dude. wait for a few more years -- Posted by ificanscream at 1:15 am on July 10, 2009 dont rush things. you have the rest of your lives to be together. give it a bit more time -- Posted by Leah Louise at 1:15 am on July 10, 2009 she isn't ready!. Let her get an education and a job and you sound dumb saying you want a son... so if she had a little girl u wouldnt like her? jee grow up and wait till your ready -- Posted by Anonymous at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from LilMissLeahLouise at 1:15 am on July 10, 2009 she isn't ready!. Let her get an education and a job   and you sound dumb saying you want a son...   so if she had a little girl u wouldnt like her?   jee   grow up and wait till your ready think before you speak. we talked about a son first then a girl. think then speak -- Posted by JamesBrauman at 1:20 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from guitargod1 at 1:14 am on July 10, 2009 dude. wait for a few more years -- Posted by rancid freakin rawk at 1:21 am on July 10, 2009 wait a few years... like another 4 imo -- Posted by xxAshIsAFreakk at 1:26 am on July 10, 2009 ... Wait a few years dude. -- Posted by nikki at 2:10 am on July 10, 2009 What's the rush? You're happy as you are, you don't need a kid and a ring to confirm that. -- Posted by Complex Kid at 3:19 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from LilMissLeahLouise at 1:15 am on July 10, 2009 she isn't ready!.    Let her get an education and a job  and you sound dumb saying you want a son...  so if she had a little girl u wouldnt like her?  jee  grow up and wait till your ready think before you speak. we talked about a son first then a girl. think then speak ...Its not like you can just plan it out like that. You never know what will happen. You could get two boys, two girls, hell, you could just try for one more and end up with eight more. -- Posted by Emmaaa at 3:33 am on July 10, 2009 Heyyy Seriously, just enjoy being young :) Have kids when you're 20 or something, just enjoy being your age now :) xxxx -- Posted by dunebug at 10:12 am on July 10, 2009 Love waits. Cheezy, but true in this case. If you love her, let her have her youth. Let her be a teen and enjoy being selfish for a few more years. Let her finish her education easier and graduate with her friends. Don't be the douche who fucks it all up because you can't keep your babyfever under control and pushes her to have a kid before she's ready. When you BOTH are 18, talk about it again. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 10:17 am on July 10, 2009 Don't do it. Don't fuck everything up. -- Posted by SimplisticComplexity at 11:03 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 4:17 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from LilMissLeahLouise at 1:15 am on July 10, 2009 she isn't ready!.    Let her get an education and a job  and you sound dumb saying you want a son...  so if she had a little girl u wouldnt like her?  jee  grow up and wait till your ready think before you speak. we talked about a son first then a girl. think then speak You didn't say that in your original post.  And besides, what if you got a girl before a boy?  Or two or three girls and no boys? -- Posted by MaryLin at 12:29 pm on July 10, 2009 At least wait until you are legally an adult. You cannot even vote yet. -- Posted by TheOtherHorseman at 1:05 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 4:13 am on July 10, 2009 But shes not ready and I can tell. we are only 16 and 17. but weve been in love for the past 4 years and are always talking about it and shes so happy when we do talk about it shes the happiest person in the world. how do I convince myself she is ready? Ive already planned a perposal and everything. but I still doubt sometimes. Help me please You convince yourself she's ready by lying to yourselves. You're still incredibly young. Establish yourselves as individuals and as members of society before you create and train other human beings in those same things. -- Posted by AndreasMommy at 3:01 pm on July 10, 2009 Wait. It doesn't matter if she's mentally ready, you also need to be ready financially. Babies cost alot. Diapers, wipes, clothing, formula, ect.. That shit adds up. & You have been in love since you were 12? Just wait a few more years, no big hurry. There's also a 50-50 chance that you will get a son. -- Posted by JennyColada at 5:08 am on July 11, 2009 Being happy about something doesn't mean that you are ready for it. Just because she may smile now at the thought of children doesn't mean that she is ready to have a child right now, and you shouldn't try to convince yourself of something that isn't true. -- Posted by Chiefette at 6:12 am on July 11, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 4:17 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from LilMissLeahLouise at 1:15 am on July 10, 2009 she isn't ready!.    Let her get an education and a job  and you sound dumb saying you want a son...  so if she had a little girl u wouldnt like her?  jee  grow up and wait till your ready think before you speak. we talked about a son first then a girl. think then speak You are aware that you cannot choose the gender of the child right? It is babyfever, let it pass, and when you are both of legal age, educated, and employeed, think about children. Oh, and don't propose, until you can spell proposal. -- Posted by Shogun villimax at 11:27 am on July 11, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:13 am on July 10, 2009 But shes not ready and I can tell. we are only 16 and 17. but weve been in love for the past 4 years and are always talking about it and shes so happy when we do talk about it shes the happiest person in the world. how do I convince myself she is ready? Ive already planned a perposal and everything. but I still doubt sometimes. Help me please Get you'r career on track now! because if you are gonna get married and start a family you are gonna need money!