-- Posted by ilikeyerrpants at 12:37 am on July 10, 2009 okay, my friend Jamie has a boyfriend but she still tells her ex boyfriend that she loves him and they text constantly and he comes and sees her at her job, but their not dating. Isn't that a form of cheating although they've never kissed or anything? -- Posted by Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 12:38 am on July 10, 2009 fuck yeah thats cheating. and bullshit. id beat that dude up. whats mine is MINE -- Posted by Cunning Stunt at 12:38 am on July 10, 2009 That's still pretty bad. -- Posted by sub800 at 12:38 am on July 10, 2009 ...kinda, yeah but at the same time it's not as bad as them fucking -- Posted by awexome at 12:38 am on July 10, 2009 I would say so. Yes. -- Posted by utheh at 12:38 am on July 10, 2009 yes it is -- Posted by eklipse at 12:39 am on July 10, 2009 I mean, nothing is wrong with saying I love you in the sense of friendship. As long as they aren't doing anything behind the scenes, I wouldn't say that it is necessarily cheating. Her boyfriend has every right to be jealous, and what she's doing might be seen as a bit... offbeat, but it's not text-book cheating. -- Posted by renegade riot at 12:39 am on July 10, 2009 its cheating. the way to think about cheating is if it would make her or you mad and you do it its cheating -- Posted by ilikeyerrpants at 12:40 am on July 10, 2009 thank you. I'm begging her to stop because the guy she's with really really loves her. -- Posted by MiSS SARAH at 12:41 am on July 10, 2009 Not cheating. -- Posted by Clara Bell at 12:41 am on July 10, 2009 That's like, emotional cheating. She obvs still has feelings for him. -- Posted by wildestdreams at 12:42 am on July 10, 2009 She sounds VERY immature. -- Posted by sub800 at 12:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from MiSS SARAH at 3:41 am on July 10, 2009 Not cheating. you want your boyfriend to tell his ex he loves her? -- Posted by ilikeyerrpants at 12:43 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from sub800 at 12:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from MiSS SARAH at 3:41 am on July 10, 2009 Not cheating. you want your boyfriend to tell his ex he loves her? lmao. -- Posted by MiSS SARAH at 12:46 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from sub800 at 12:42 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from MiSS SARAH at 3:41 am on July 10, 2009 Not cheating. you want your boyfriend to tell his ex he loves her? Actually my boyfriends is good friends with his ex, they probably do say "I love you" occasionally... I don't mind because I'm secure enough in my relationship. However, not everyone is. I never said it was right that she does that, i just said it's not cheating. -- Posted by return2me at 12:52 am on July 10, 2009 um yeah, cheating. -- Posted by ilikeyerrpants at 12:57 am on July 10, 2009 Thing is, her bf doesn't like her ex and doesn't want her talking to him. Understandable. And she still texts him, and everything. It's Bull.