-- Posted by jdjack127 at 7:09 pm on July 9, 2009 Alright so not too long ago I met this girl through a friend. Anyway we're going to the movies next week. This is the second time I'm chilling with her , first time alone though. Anyway I am going into 12th grade and she is going into 9th. Yes I know the age difference is kinda big but I really like her. She isn't like any other girl I've met, especially girls in that grade. Shes a genuinely good person. She doesn't seem like the kinda girl that would want to make out and stuff at the movies in fact I don't know if she ever has kissed a guy before. She probably has but I don't know if she's ever made out. Anyway how physical do I get at the movies? Like I want her to know for sure that I like her. So just like arm around the shoulder? Do I just try and kiss her goodnight or give a hug and wait until the third time before a kiss? Sorry I've never been to the movies alone with a girl usually I just do other stuff. So any advice would be great. -- Posted by germanygirl at 7:11 pm on July 9, 2009 Arm around the shoulder, kiss goodnight. That way you're still showing her you like her BUT you're still being very very respectful. (Which is important because of the age difference.) -- Posted by gravewatcher at 7:12 pm on July 9, 2009 hugs and the arm around the shoulder are always nice during the second date. 3rd date are normally the kissing date it seems. But that's just my opinion. -- Posted by looktothelight at 7:13 pm on July 9, 2009 wow. you dont know her and already focusing on that. guys are dicks. -- Posted by SilverWind at 7:28 pm on July 9, 2009 if this the first time you hang out alone with her then i suggest that you don't kiss her cuz she doesn't sound like shes the type to kiss someone so soon in the relationship.