-- Posted by GFHOPEFUL at 5:53 pm on July 6, 2009 I have blown off so many chances just because I'm shy. Ugh. It sucks being shy.. idk how I'm going to meet people =( i think I'm ugly. -- Posted by Areola at 5:54 pm on July 6, 2009 I'm shy and still meet people. So, you're not meeting them because you don't want to. -- Posted by GFHOPEFUL at 5:54 pm on July 6, 2009 I do want to, though. -- Posted by MajorT0M at 5:55 pm on July 6, 2009 Im shy and ugly. I just dont really care. -- Posted by Areola at 5:56 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from gfhopeful at 8:54 pm on July 6, 2009 I do want to, though. Then do it. You can't HOPE people come to you. It doesn't happen that way. Branch out of your comfort zone. -- Posted by Lahanalove at 5:57 pm on July 6, 2009 You have to prepare about 30 secs of confidence and make a quick introduction to someone you don't know. Think about it this way. They can only say they don't wanna talk and unless they are extremely cruel they'll insult you. But most people are too afraid to make a first move. You are not alone. -- Posted by clockworkorange71 at 5:58 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Katx at 5:56 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from gfhopeful at 8:54 pm on July 6, 2009 I do want to, though. Then do it. You can't HOPE people come to you. It doesn't happen that way. Branch out of your comfort zone. You know it doesn't work like that for everyone.  You're just not as shy as some are.  I mean it can physically be uncomfortable and even make people anxious to do that.. -- Posted by GFHOPEFUL at 5:59 pm on July 6, 2009 I wouldn't know what to say...=( I'm hopeless... -- Posted by Areola at 6:01 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from clockworkorange71 at 8:58 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Katx at 5:56 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from gfhopeful at 8:54 pm on July 6, 2009 I do want to, though.    Then do it.    You can't HOPE people come to you.    It doesn't happen that way.    Branch out of your comfort zone. You know it doesn't work like that for everyone. You're just not as shy as some are. I mean it can physically be uncomfortable and even make people anxious to do that.. Still. She won't meet anyone unless she tries. I'm telling her how it is, you're just trying to tell her what she wants to hear. -- Posted by GFHOPEFUL at 6:02 pm on July 6, 2009 I'm a *he* not a she. -- Posted by clockworkorange71 at 6:04 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Katx at 6:01 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from clockworkorange71 at 8:58 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from Katx at 5:56 pm on July 6, 2009 Quote: from gfhopeful at 8:54 pm on July 6, 2009 I do want to, though.   Then do it.   You can't HOPE people come to you.   It doesn't happen that way.   Branch out of your comfort zone.    You know it doesn't work like that for everyone.  You're just not as shy as some are.  I mean it can physically be uncomfortable and even make people anxious to do that.. Still. She won't meet anyone unless she tries. I'm telling her how it is, you're just trying to tell her what she wants to hear. I realize that.. and if he wants to he's going to have to.. But for some it's alot harder than just to say 'go out there and do it'.. -- Posted by lebronbballboy93 at 9:11 pm on July 6, 2009 I used to be shy. Show people your personallity and even though all won't like you, lots of people will. Make yourself more social. Just remember that everybody are humans just like you, rejection isn't the worst thing that can happen to you -- Posted by iluzy at 12:09 pm on July 7, 2009 try to be more optimistic, you'll find the girl for you -- Posted by GFHOPEFUL at 2:49 pm on July 7, 2009 You guys don't understand. I have like a problem. Whenever someone approaches ME I spazz the hell out and start getting nervous and stuttering for no reason and I hate it. And I WANT to meet that person. Idk what it is...