-- Posted by Meg23 at 3:20 pm on July 6, 2009 this dude asked me on a group date but im going on vacation in a week but he doesnt know. should i text him right now and ask to go or after my vacation? -- Posted by allsmiles at 3:21 pm on July 6, 2009 o_O Yes, let him know you're on vacation and express interest in arranging a date. -- Posted by agerask at 3:22 pm on July 6, 2009 yeah, just spell it out for him and let him know you're still interested.