-- Posted by RosabellaRai at 2:51 pm on July 6, 2009 So. im going back to my ex who ive been with for a year and 3 months until i ended it in january... hes always been there for me.. even after all the stuff i put him through.. hes the type of guy that if you get into an arguement you can just scream and yell at him.. let it all out. and yet hug him at the end and him saying itll be okay.. i saw him yesterday when i went bowling with him.. and when i saw him all of my problems just washed away. but theres this other guy i turned down.. hes in "love" with me as he says.. hes been waiting to go out for me for a while now. ive hurt him alot over the past month and yet he still wants me.. he told me that im the girl for him. he'll wait no matter how long because im worth it.. he doesnt want to be with anyone else but me.. i feel bad for turning him down.. but i like the friendship me and him have.. nothing else.. but he told me its hard for him to feel the way he does for me and still be just my friend.. he said its going to be hard for him to come over my house and hide his feelings for me when we play pool or just chill and watch tv... i hope i made the right choice =/ -- Posted by AcidSilence at 2:54 pm on July 6, 2009 Well, i'm in a familiar situation. This girl has waited on my for like 2 years. And I just don't feel it... ]: I think you made the right choice. Do whats best for you. P.S.- find me a man like yours? :D -- Posted by Just Waiting Here at 2:54 pm on July 6, 2009 If you don't have emotions towards him past friendship, then you made the right choice.  It wouldn't be fair to him to be in a relationship with him if you thought of him as just a friend.  It may hurt him, but with time, I think he will move on.  It may be a bit awkward, but it would only cause both of you more pain if you tried to be in a relationship that wasn't right for you. -- Posted by CrazyGrrl4U at 3:00 pm on July 6, 2009 you should just follow your heart. and it sounds like you are so yeah you made the right choice.