-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:10 pm on July 5, 2009 so, my girlfriends birthday is on friday, and she wont tell me what she wants..she says there nothing she would want me to have other than to be with me.. ive only been dating her for 3 months, what should i get her? -- Posted by Joep0113 at 9:12 pm on July 5, 2009 Just fyi generally all girls will do this. You can't go wrong with something metal and shiny and expensive, like a necklace. -- Posted by Pillowpants at 9:13 pm on July 5, 2009 a single rose and a poem writen about it. -- Posted by hope19 at 9:16 pm on July 5, 2009 I know you said guys only lol. But I'm gonna respond anyway. Since the only thing she wants is to be with you, I think you should plan a day with her. Like, make her dinner at home and watch a movie and cuddle or something along those lines. Instead of buying some sort of gift. -- Posted by andrethebest1 at 9:16 pm on July 5, 2009 something not that expensive, along with a card/ song written by you. -- Posted by Aria of Silence at 9:19 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from hope19 at 12:16 am on July 6, 2009 I know you said guys only lol. But I'm gonna respond anyway. Since the only thing she wants is to be with you, I think you should plan a day with her. Like, make her dinner at home and watch a movie and cuddle or something along those lines. Instead of buying some sort of gift. oh that sounds nice -- Posted by DropsofJupiter at 9:20 pm on July 5, 2009 you can't go wrong with a teddy bear, wearing jewlreyyyy :) -- Posted by theyareAs at 9:43 pm on July 5, 2009 Just do that, be there with her as long as you can -- Posted by nik1 at 1:34 am on July 6, 2009 Three months is not a long time but you do need to make the day feel very important to her.  Often the things that don't cost anything are the most memorable.  Little surprises starting in the morning such as flowers (put a single rose in a vase and put it on her front porch) with a birthday card will get her day started right.  A small box of candy at lunch, another card in the afternoon delivered by you and some of her friends to sing happy birthday to her.  Take her out for dinner in the evening.  Keep in mind that her family might need some time with her too. -- Posted by TheClassic at 1:55 am on July 6, 2009 How old are you guys first of all. Do something adventerous and have it all planned out, girls love that.  Be spontaneous, do the unexpected. -- Posted by charisma316 at 2:56 am on July 6, 2009 let her hook up with a real man who knows what to get her