-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:11 pm on July 5, 2009 I'm about to be engaged to my boyfriend soon, and after a few years of engagement we planned on getting married. Perfectly fine with me, I love the idea and I love him. The thing is to anyone else we're not even going out, and we can't see each other because of my parents and I'm not out of the house until I'm 18. But I've been trying to talk to him about what we're going to do. When I leave we're going to rent an apartment together and just kind of start fresh. Well we were texting, because I was around my family, and we talked about it. Well for two days things went from decent to horrible, and I think I had hurt his feelings. I guess because I want him to be so sure because I'm not used to the way he treats me. So I'm always questioning are you ok with that, are you sure. I told him that since I was a girl and my parents got divorced I never wanted to get married until I met him. Until then he had been for sure, lets get eloped as soon as you're 18, and then I said that and that I want a long engagement. All of a sudden he agreed and said that's probably best... It's not what I was expecting. It just went on like that, about different things, and I completely want to push him to make sure he's sure about me, because I love him and I do want to marry him, just not that soon. But it's like now all of a sudden he's changing his mind and all of that, and I'm freaking out. And now today I've maybe gotten two messages from him when usually we're talking to each other all day and it's just like he might be kind of pissed off and I don't know what to do, I don't, and I don't even know if he's mad but he's never been like this and I'm freaking out. -- Posted by aagrlc21 at 6:14 pm on July 5, 2009 You're too young to tie yourself down. -- Posted by JustaKid at 6:14 pm on July 5, 2009 youve never met him and you want to marry him? your not allowed to leave the house until you 18? wtf are you in jail or something?