-- Posted by idontwanttobehere at 2:15 pm on July 5, 2009 the last 3 times ive seen hiom were when i was 8 and my fathers mom died and he came to say his condolences when i was at my uncles wedding 2 mays ago and yesterday when i was at work. at th ewedduing he asked who i was. at work he didnt acknowledge me. i am almost 18 he doesnt know me and i never see him by choice. my mom syas i need to get to know him because he is my grandfather but he just recently started hnging around my family im not ok with him being around and i dont want to spend time with him but i am beign forced because bbq on the 11th hell be there. am i being irrational? ps he cheated on my grandmother and beat her.