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-- Posted by Anonymous at 2:11 pm on July 5, 2009
i'm confused about a lot of things. one is why people act the way they do and how i'm supposed to respond the correct way. i always feel like i'm doing something wrong and that others don't respect me. when i'm in my room i dwell on it. i wish i were good enough. i try to find the truth all the time, for example: if i were hotter i'd get a date effortlessly or stuff like that. it's weird but if it actually happened i wouldn't like it. that's just an example. basically i'm lost and wish someone would help me see the truth. the truth of everyday incidents and teach me how to act. until then i will think erratically.
-- Posted by xNebulazx at 2:17 pm on July 5, 2009
I hear ya on that one. Same thing with me.
-- Posted by mbs55 at 2:27 pm on July 5, 2009
People are going to act the way they do; you can't change that. What you can change, however, is yourself. Don't concern yourself with what others say or how others act. It doesn't matter what they think; what matters is what you think. The reason why you feel others don't respect you is exactly that; because you FEEL like you get no respect. Either a) they really do give you respect and you just don't see it, or b) they don't give you respect because you think so low of yourself. You just need to build up your self-confidence. The fact is that you ARE good enough. There is no such thing as a person that is "not good enough." You also said that you wish you were "hotter" so you could get a date "effortlessly." Well, I can pretty much guarantee you that a good majority of the world feels the same way you do. You're not alone. My point really is that no one can "teach" you how to act other than your very own self. If you try to learn how to act from others, you're setting yourself up for failure.
-- Posted by Anonymous at 2:32 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:27 pm on July 5, 2009
 People are going to act the way they do; you can't change that. What you can change, however, is yourself. Don't concern yourself with what others say or how others act. It doesn't matter what they think; what matters is what you think. The reason why you feel others don't respect you is exactly that; because you FEEL like you get no respect. Either a) they really do give you respect and you just don't see it, or b) they don't give you respect because you think so low of yourself. You just need to build up your self-confidence. The fact is that you ARE good enough. There is no such thing as a person that is "not good enough." You also said that you wish you were "hotter" so you could get a date "effortlessly." Well, I can pretty much guarantee you that a good majority of the world feels the same way you do. You're not alone. My point really is that no one can "teach" you how to act other than your very own self. If you try to learn how to act from others, you're setting yourself up for failure. 
Easier said than done. I dwell all the time too on how I'M acting and what the effects of it are, although its very difficult to change. i feel very alone. i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be. i know its stupid. like i said, i feel very alone.
-- Posted by mbs55 at 2:34 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:32 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:27 pm on July 5, 2009
People are going to act the way they do; you can't change that. What you can change, however, is yourself. Don't concern yourself with what others say or how others act. It doesn't matter what they think; what matters is what you think. The reason why you feel others don't respect you is exactly that; because you FEEL like you get no respect. Either a) they really do give you respect and you just don't see it, or b) they don't give you respect because you think so low of yourself. You just need to build up your self-confidence. The fact is that you ARE good enough. There is no such thing as a person that is "not good enough." You also said that you wish you were "hotter" so you could get a date "effortlessly." Well, I can pretty much guarantee you that a good majority of the world feels the same way you do. You're not alone. My point really is that no one can "teach" you how to act other than your very own self. If you try to learn how to act from others, you're setting yourself up for failure.
Easier said than done. I dwell all the time too on how I'M acting and what the effects of it are, although its very difficult to change. i feel very alone. i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be. i know its stupid. like i said, i feel very alone.
I know it's easier said than done, but it's something you're going to have to do to break out of this. I'm not really sure what you mean here either: "i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be." Can you explain that a little more? Maybe I can help you with it.
-- Posted by Anonymous at 2:42 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:34 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:32 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:27 pm on July 5, 2009
People are going to act the way they do; you can't change that. What you can change, however, is yourself. Don't concern yourself with what others say or how others act. It doesn't matter what they think; what matters is what you think. The reason why you feel others don't respect you is exactly that; because you FEEL like you get no respect. Either a) they really do give you respect and you just don't see it, or b) they don't give you respect because you think so low of yourself. You just need to build up your self-confidence. The fact is that you ARE good enough. There is no such thing as a person that is "not good enough." You also said that you wish you were "hotter" so you could get a date "effortlessly." Well, I can pretty much guarantee you that a good majority of the world feels the same way you do. You're not alone. My point really is that no one can "teach" you how to act other than your very own self. If you try to learn how to act from others, you're setting yourself up for failure.
Easier said than done. I dwell all the time too on how I'M acting and what the effects of it are, although its very difficult to change. i feel very alone. i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be. i know its stupid. like i said, i feel very alone.
I know it's easier said than done, but it's something you're going to have to do to break out of this. I'm not really sure what you mean here either: "i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be." Can you explain that a little more? Maybe I can help you with it.
i guess, since its too difficult to explain, i thnk negatively and always feel like others won't ever really like me or will be able to "connect" with me.
-- Posted by mbs55 at 5:34 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:42 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:34 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:32 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:27 pm on July 5, 2009
People are going to act the way they do; you can't change that. What you can change, however, is yourself. Don't concern yourself with what others say or how others act. It doesn't matter what they think; what matters is what you think. The reason why you feel others don't respect you is exactly that; because you FEEL like you get no respect. Either a) they really do give you respect and you just don't see it, or b) they don't give you respect because you think so low of yourself. You just need to build up your self-confidence. The fact is that you ARE good enough. There is no such thing as a person that is "not good enough." You also said that you wish you were "hotter" so you could get a date "effortlessly." Well, I can pretty much guarantee you that a good majority of the world feels the same way you do. You're not alone. My point really is that no one can "teach" you how to act other than your very own self. If you try to learn how to act from others, you're setting yourself up for failure.
Easier said than done. I dwell all the time too on how I'M acting and what the effects of it are, although its very difficult to change. i feel very alone. i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be. i know its stupid. like i said, i feel very alone.
I know it's easier said than done, but it's something you're going to have to do to break out of this. I'm not really sure what you mean here either: "i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be." Can you explain that a little more? Maybe I can help you with it.
i guess, since its too difficult to explain, i thnk negatively and always feel like others won't ever really like me or will be able to "connect" with me.
See, you can't think that way. If you think negatively, you will live poorly. You have to learn to think positively and not worry about whether or not others will like you or connect with you. If you just be yourself, all of that will come.
-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:35 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 5:34 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:42 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:34 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:32 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:27 pm on July 5, 2009
People are going to act the way they do; you can't change that. What you can change, however, is yourself. Don't concern yourself with what others say or how others act. It doesn't matter what they think; what matters is what you think. The reason why you feel others don't respect you is exactly that; because you FEEL like you get no respect. Either a) they really do give you respect and you just don't see it, or b) they don't give you respect because you think so low of yourself. You just need to build up your self-confidence. The fact is that you ARE good enough. There is no such thing as a person that is "not good enough." You also said that you wish you were "hotter" so you could get a date "effortlessly." Well, I can pretty much guarantee you that a good majority of the world feels the same way you do. You're not alone. My point really is that no one can "teach" you how to act other than your very own self. If you try to learn how to act from others, you're setting yourself up for failure.
Easier said than done. I dwell all the time too on how I'M acting and what the effects of it are, although its very difficult to change. i feel very alone. i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be. i know its stupid. like i said, i feel very alone.
I know it's easier said than done, but it's something you're going to have to do to break out of this. I'm not really sure what you mean here either: "i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be." Can you explain that a little more? Maybe I can help you with it.
i guess, since its too difficult to explain, i thnk negatively and always feel like others won't ever really like me or will be able to "connect" with me.
See, you can't think that way. If you think negatively, you will live poorly. You have to learn to think positively and not worry about whether or not others will like you or connect with you. If you just be yourself, all of that will come.
Lol i thought you forgot about me. how do you think positively? it feels impossible.
-- Posted by mbs55 at 5:38 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 8:35 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 5:34 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:42 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:34 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 5:32 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 2:27 pm on July 5, 2009
People are going to act the way they do; you can't change that. What you can change, however, is yourself. Don't concern yourself with what others say or how others act. It doesn't matter what they think; what matters is what you think. The reason why you feel others don't respect you is exactly that; because you FEEL like you get no respect. Either a) they really do give you respect and you just don't see it, or b) they don't give you respect because you think so low of yourself. You just need to build up your self-confidence. The fact is that you ARE good enough. There is no such thing as a person that is "not good enough." You also said that you wish you were "hotter" so you could get a date "effortlessly." Well, I can pretty much guarantee you that a good majority of the world feels the same way you do. You're not alone. My point really is that no one can "teach" you how to act other than your very own self. If you try to learn how to act from others, you're setting yourself up for failure.
Easier said than done. I dwell all the time too on how I'M acting and what the effects of it are, although its very difficult to change. i feel very alone. i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be. i know its stupid. like i said, i feel very alone.
I know it's easier said than done, but it's something you're going to have to do to break out of this. I'm not really sure what you mean here either: "i've grown a bad habit of paying great great attention to the situation around me and how it actually is, rather than what everyone percieves it to be." Can you explain that a little more? Maybe I can help you with it.
i guess, since its too difficult to explain, i thnk negatively and always feel like others won't ever really like me or will be able to "connect" with me.
See, you can't think that way. If you think negatively, you will live poorly. You have to learn to think positively and not worry about whether or not others will like you or connect with you. If you just be yourself, all of that will come.
Lol i thought you forgot about me. how do you think positively? it feels impossible.
Haha no I didn't forget about you. To be honest, I can't really tell you how to think positively. It's just something that you yourself have to set your mind to. However, spending more time with people and keeping yourself busy will clear your mind of negative thoughts. Just wake up every day and be thankful that you are alive and appreciate everything that you have. That's a good start to thinking positively.
-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:57 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 5:38 pm on July 5, 2009
Haha no I didn't forget about you. To be honest, I can't really tell you how to think positively. It's just something that you yourself have to set your mind to. However, spending more time with people and keeping yourself busy will clear your mind of negative thoughts. Just wake up every day and be thankful that you are alive and appreciate everything that you have. That's a good start to thinking positively.
I think one of the reasons I think negatively is because i was raised as an easy target, not on purpose though. so i feel like others only see me as an easy target for some reason and don't respect me.
-- Posted by mbs55 at 7:17 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 8:57 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 5:38 pm on July 5, 2009
Haha no I didn't forget about you. To be honest, I can't really tell you how to think positively. It's just something that you yourself have to set your mind to. However, spending more time with people and keeping yourself busy will clear your mind of negative thoughts. Just wake up every day and be thankful that you are alive and appreciate everything that you have. That's a good start to thinking positively.
I think one of the reasons I think negatively is because i was raised as an easy target, not on purpose though. so i feel like others only see me as an easy target for some reason and don't respect me.
Well, if the others don't know that you were an "easy target," then that's not going to be the reason why they don't respect you. You're probably just giving off a very negative vibe.
-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:43 pm on July 7, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 7:17 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Anonymous at 8:57 pm on July 5, 2009
Quote: from mbs55 at 5:38 pm on July 5, 2009
Haha no I didn't forget about you. To be honest, I can't really tell you how to think positively. It's just something that you yourself have to set your mind to. However, spending more time with people and keeping yourself busy will clear your mind of negative thoughts. Just wake up every day and be thankful that you are alive and appreciate everything that you have. That's a good start to thinking positively.
I think one of the reasons I think negatively is because i was raised as an easy target, not on purpose though. so i feel like others only see me as an easy target for some reason and don't respect me.
Well, if the others don't know that you were an "easy target," then that's not going to be the reason why they don't respect you. You're probably just giving off a very negative vibe.
I know I definately do give off a negative vibe. =/
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