-- Posted by merryberrycherry at 11:47 am on July 5, 2009 So I just found out that my ex best friend told her mum everything about my anorexic and bulimic tendancies, my self harming and suicidal ideas. Her mum knows everything about me! EVERYTHING and she has known for over 4 months, I had no idea until friday night when my friend R confided with me. He told me that my ex friend's mother told everyone at their work and that is how R knows..he has known for over 4months so if he's known for that long..how long has my ex friends mum known!? I don't know what to do but everytime I visit R at work she is always tells me how thin I am and I am too thin bla bla bla..it all makes sense now! Do I talk to her and try to convince her I am okay? I need to stop her from telling anyone else and this is the only way I can think of. HELP! -- Posted by Light Assassin at 11:48 am on July 5, 2009 so what if she knows you need to get rid of it and she's not gonna tell anyone and if she does she's a bitch. but if you dont even see her anymore it shouldn't matter to you -- Posted by RIMHfire at 11:50 am on July 5, 2009 yeah ryt. -- Posted by G Sus at 11:54 am on July 5, 2009 Just tell her that you're in a fragile position atm and if lots of people know it could set you off, you're working on it and that she just needs to forget about it and leave it to you to sort. -- Posted by error at 9:15 am on July 6, 2009 just talk to her and tell her your working on things and your fine and you would prefer that she keep it to herself because its not necessary for everyone else to know. -- Posted by twisted angel at 4:44 pm on July 9, 2009 Well if you have all that you really need help, its not healthy or good for you.