-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:45 am on July 5, 2009 (If this is too long, I apologize.) I've been dating this one guy for a while now and, for some reason, I've been a bit worried about what his intentions with me are. Like....if he really cares about me or if he's just with me for the possibility of getting laid one day. He says he isn't like that, but he seems to talk about sex a lot (then again, he could just be a typical guy on that part because it's not like he pressures me to do anything). I told him last night about my worries and this is how our conversation went: Me: There's way too many guys out there that only want sex out of a relationship. Him: Well...I really dunno anymore. Me: Huh? What don't you know? Him: I dunno....anything could happen. Me: Well...just so you aren't one of those guys who only look for sexual pleasure in a relationship because that's kind of something I worry about. Him: Well...I was in a relationship with somebody for a year and everybody kept asking me, "How come aren't you fucking her yet?" and I just told them that sex isn't something you should pressure on somebody. You need to wait for the right time before you decide to do anything. So...am I just worrying over nothing or what? I do have a tendency to worry over things that aren't even a major deal.....is this one of those times? Because I've been in this kind of relationship before and a part of me wants to believe him...but there's a part of me that doesn't quite believe him. -- Posted by GoldenAdia18 at 9:46 am on July 5, 2009 Don't worry until he starts to pressure you. -- Posted by Areola at 9:46 am on July 5, 2009 You can't have a good relationship unless you have trust. So you have to choose to trust him or just break up with him. -- Posted by PBScott at 9:48 am on July 5, 2009 All guys want to get laid, all of them, so he does as well as every other guy on earth... -- Posted by nousakan at 9:48 am on July 5, 2009 Way to make something out of nothing.  Doesnt it break down to weather or not you want to have sex, hell if you dont, then don't he seems ok with it.  My last gf was a virgin when we started dating (I had slept with over 20 women).  We didnt have sex for over 6 months, and I was completely fine with it.  Not every guy is a womanizing pig. -- Posted by Aimforthehead at 9:56 am on July 5, 2009 Quote: from PBScott at 9:48 am on July 5, 2009 All guys want to get laid, all of them, so he does as well as every other guy on earth... Not really, I'm waiting to have sex. -- Posted by Johnboysfun at 1:07 pm on July 5, 2009 You don,t have a true "relationship" until you've had sex together. It can come close even if you just spend the night together naked and holding and caressing each other but it is hard to let it stop there.