Pages: 1 2 3  Next -- Posted by The Immortal Lie at 8:44 pm on July 4, 2009 Me..Once again. I can't do this. I can't have a child. This will make the third one. I've miscarried the other two, one on purpose. I can't..Oh my god. Anyways, I don't know quite what to do right now. I am almost 3 months. -- Posted by namefake3 at 8:45 pm on July 4, 2009 and you just found out...? -- Posted by Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 8:45 pm on July 4, 2009 but youre a lesbian... and get some friggin spermicidal lube. -- Posted by Aileyy at 8:45 pm on July 4, 2009 But youre a lesbian isnt the only way for you to get pregnant on purpose? -- Posted by Fortis Obscurum at 8:46 pm on July 4, 2009 Get an abortion. -- Posted by See Me Now at 8:46 pm on July 4, 2009 ... you're a lesbian? Anyway, if you've made it to 3 months, the chances of you miscarrying are down quite a bit. If you can't have a child, will you at least *consider* putting it up for adoption vs killing it? -- Posted by DeForest at 8:46 pm on July 4, 2009 Are you not on birth control? If you aren't, I'd suggest getting on it. If you can't have a child at this time in your life I'd suggest aborting. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 8:46 pm on July 4, 2009 Have an abortion and this time learn from your mistakes stop having sex when you don't want a child -- Posted by DeForest at 8:46 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from See Me Now at 8:46 pm on July 4, 2009 ... you're a lesbian? Anyway, if you've made it to 3 months, the chances of you miscarrying are down quite a bit. If you can't have a child, will you at least *consider* putting it up for adoption vs killing it? The miscarriage window is usually in the first three months, correct. -- Posted by W o n d e r l a n d at 8:47 pm on July 4, 2009 Go to the dr and get as much advice as you can about what you should and shouldn't be doing. Stressing is something that you should be avoiding. do you want a kid ? -- Posted by Themakingofagod at 8:47 pm on July 4, 2009 CLOSE YOUR LEGS This is a simple solution. -- Posted by JustLetMeCry at 8:47 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from See Me Now at 11:46 pm on July 4, 2009 ... you're a lesbian? Anyway, if you've made it to 3 months, the chances of you miscarrying are down quite a bit. If you can't have a child, will you at least *consider* putting it up for adoption vs killing it? This. -- Posted by The Immortal Lie at 8:48 pm on July 4, 2009 And to the rest of you, yes I am a goddamned lesbian. But..It happens ya know? And, yeah..I've thought about adoption quite alot. But, i cannot have a child. End of story. Abortion..I'm terrified. -- Posted by White Fate at 8:49 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from See Me Now at 11:46 pm on July 4, 2009 ... you're a lesbian? Anyway, if you've made it to 3 months, the chances of you miscarrying are down quite a bit. If you can't have a child, will you at least *consider* putting it up for adoption vs killing it? Aborting is not killing. -- Posted by DeForest at 8:49 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 8:48 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from TaliaBBy at 11:46 pm on July 4, 2009 Stop being such a slut you dirty ass whore. Bitch, you don't know me. Shut the fuck up and suck my dick. And to the rest of you, yes I am a goddamned lesbian. But..It happens ya know? And, yeah..I've thought about adoption quite alot. But, i cannot have a child. End of story. Abortion..I'm terrified. What are you terrified of? Maybe we can help put your fears to rest. Are you afraid it'll hurt? -- Posted by ehmusic at 8:49 pm on July 4, 2009 You're shit at this whole gay thing, aren't you? -- Posted by The Immortal Lie at 8:50 pm on July 4, 2009 I am not scared that it will hurt so much as that..I don't know that it won't work or that I'll die..Tho I guess a life for a life is the Earths way of doing things. I don't know what to do. And to the bitch who said lez with a dick? its called a strap on. Grow the fuck up. -- Posted by Aileyy at 8:51 pm on July 4, 2009 Youre terrified youve done it how many times if anything you are just being selfish. Youve already killed 2 of them that is two lives. You cant do it you cant handle it than stick to women.  If youve gotten pregnant before you should know to use protection and be more careful. -- Posted by The Immortal Lie at 8:52 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aileyy at 11:51 pm on July 4, 2009 Youre terrified youve done it how many times if anything you are just being selfish. Youve already killed 2 of them that is two lives. You cant do it you cant handle it than stick to women. If youve gotten pregnant before you should know to use protection and be more careful. LISTEN TO ME. I DID NOT HAVE AN ABORTION BEFORE OR I WOULD NOT BE ASKING THIS RIGHT NOW. Learn to read, do please. And I am not getting pregnant on purpose if it's any of your concern. -- Posted by Aileyy at 8:54 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 8:52 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aileyy at 11:51 pm on July 4, 2009 Youre terrified youve done it how many times if anything you are just being selfish. Youve already killed 2 of them that is two lives. You cant do it you cant handle it than stick to women.  If youve gotten pregnant before you should know to use protection and be more careful. LISTEN TO ME. I DID NOT HAVE AN ABORTION BEFORE OR I WOULD NOT BE ASKING THIS RIGHT NOW. Learn to read, do please. And I am not getting pregnant on purpose if it's any of your concern. but you miscarried one on purpose correct? -- Posted by Kaijuu at 8:55 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 8:48 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from TaliaBBy at 11:46 pm on July 4, 2009 Stop being such a slut you dirty ass whore. Bitch, you don't know me. Shut the fuck up and suck my dick. And to the rest of you, yes I am a goddamned lesbian. But..It happens ya know? And, yeah..I've thought about adoption quite alot. But, i cannot have a child. End of story. Abortion..I'm terrified. Don't be. It's not so bad. -- Posted by The Immortal Lie at 8:55 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aileyy at 11:54 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 8:52 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aileyy at 11:51 pm on July 4, 2009 Youre terrified youve done it how many times if anything you are just being selfish. Youve already killed 2 of them that is two lives. You cant do it you cant handle it than stick to women. If youve gotten pregnant before you should know to use protection and be more careful.    LISTEN TO ME. I DID NOT HAVE AN ABORTION BEFORE OR I WOULD NOT BE ASKING THIS RIGHT NOW.    Learn to read, do please.    And I am not getting pregnant on purpose if it's any of your concern. but you miscarried one on purpose correct? Yes, I did. That's not the same thing as abortion in my opinion but then again my opinion is fucked up to some degree. I've never gone and had a doctor kill my child before. Alright is that better? -- Posted by DeForest at 8:56 pm on July 4, 2009 We've come a long way in the medical field. You can go in for an in-clinic abortion, they'll make sure everything goes well. There are risks with any medical procedure, but risk only grows the longer you're pregnant. So sit down and think things out before rushing off. The risk of dying during childbirth is 11 times higher than the risk of dying during an abortion. Don't worry. -- Posted by Aileyy at 8:57 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 8:55 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aileyy at 11:54 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from SilverMoonSparkles at 8:52 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aileyy at 11:51 pm on July 4, 2009 Youre terrified youve done it how many times if anything you are just being selfish. Youve already killed 2 of them that is two lives. You cant do it you cant handle it than stick to women.  If youve gotten pregnant before you should know to use protection and be more careful.   LISTEN TO ME. I DID NOT HAVE AN ABORTION BEFORE OR I WOULD NOT BE ASKING THIS RIGHT NOW.   Learn to read, do please.   And I am not getting pregnant on purpose if it's any of your concern.    but you miscarried one on purpose correct? Yes, I did. That's not the same thing as abortion in my opinion but then again my opinion is fucked up to some degree. I've never gone and had a doctor kill my child before. Alright is that better? it clears some of it up i suppose. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 8:57 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aileyy at 8:51 pm on July 4, 2009 Youre terrified youve done it how many times if anything you are just being selfish. Youve already killed 2 of them that is two lives. You cant do it you cant handle it than stick to women. If youve gotten pregnant before you should know to use protection and be more careful. Its not selfish. The thing isn't even alive yet and it's her body that has to go through 9 months of bullshit. -- Posted by The Immortal Lie at 8:57 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from DeForest at 11:56 pm on July 4, 2009 We've come a long way in the medical field. You can go in for an in-clinic abortion, they'll make sure everything goes well. There are risks with any medical procedure, but risk only grows the longer you're pregnant. So sit down and think things out before rushing off. The risk of dying during childbirth is 11 times higher than the risk of dying during an abortion. Don't worry. Thank you so much. This is what I was looking for in regards to a reply. LW has gone to the dogs in so many ways. I think that I'm more scared of..Being alone while it's done I guess and too afraid to tell anyone. I've just told my girl and she's supposed to see me tomorrow so hopefully she will go with me. -- Posted by DeForest at 8:58 pm on July 4, 2009 To everyone replying negatively- pro choice and pro life will most likely never be a settled issue. We all have our opinions and beliefs. Respect what others do, accept what you can not. If she wants an abortion, she can have one. We may not like it, but we have no say in what she decides. -- Posted by TaliaBBy at 9:01 pm on July 4, 2009 uh im sure birth hurts alot more than abortion.. get it done while its early. -- Posted by Veldel at 9:01 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from White Fate at 11:49 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from See Me Now at 11:46 pm on July 4, 2009 ... you're a lesbian?    Anyway, if you've made it to 3 months, the chances of you miscarrying are down quite a bit. If you can't have a child, will you at least *consider* putting it up for adoption vs killing it? Aborting is not killing. It is killing it -- Posted by The Immortal Lie at 9:03 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Arcon at 12:01 am on July 5, 2009 Quote: from White Fate at 11:49 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from See Me Now at 11:46 pm on July 4, 2009 ... you're a lesbian?   Anyway, if you've made it to 3 months, the chances of you miscarrying are down quite a bit. If you can't have a child, will you at least *consider* putting it up for adoption vs killing it?    Aborting is not killing. It is killing it I agree with you. I just can't have it. Pages: 1 2 3  Next