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-- Posted by WickedWiccan at 4:22 pm on July 4, 2009

We like to be told we're beautiful and hot but not all the time. It starts getting old pretty fast and sooner or later it sounds like a lie.

We need to know you love us but we don't need to hear it 10 times every single day. Show us instead of telling us.

Don't get us everything we want because if you can't get us something at some point we're going to be disappointed.

Don't always agree with us. We don't want a guy who will say yes to everything we say or think. Sometimes we need negative feedback too.

Don't be clingy. Cuddling is awesome but only when the mood is right. Eventually it starts to feel like you're trying to claim us like property in front of everybody. We also start to feel asphyxiated.

Always keep or try to keep your promises. Never promise anything you know you won't do or that we know you don't really want to do. We DO know.

Please LISTEN to what we say. You don't really have to have fascinating answers that will solve everything but at least act as if you care about what we're telling you.

Last, make your own decisions. We don't always want to be the ones who have the final say. It's very sexy when guys know what they want. There is a difference between compromising and giving in. You should never give in to us just to avoid a fight. I think that's it, lol.


-- Posted by ToyJetpack at 4:23 pm on July 4, 2009

This reads like a Myspace bulletin.


-- Posted by Ku Klux Klan at 4:24 pm on July 4, 2009

tl;dr


-- Posted by Sheebobee at 4:24 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from ToyJetpack at 7:23 pm on July 4, 2009


This reads like a Myspace bulletin.
I was thinking the same thing


-- Posted by Jasonzlpa at 4:24 pm on July 4, 2009

Not all guys need to know this, because not all girls like this.  The majority probably do, but definitely not all.


-- Posted by acausedelle at 4:24 pm on July 4, 2009

So basically if we make one wrong move, we get dumped.


-- Posted by 420mike at 4:24 pm on July 4, 2009

That is pretty good advice... From my experiences i'm just total fail at life, so it doesn't really help me.  But other guys, listen to her.


-- Posted by LiveForeverDieTonite at 4:25 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Sheebobee at 7:24 pm on July 4, 2009


Quote: from ToyJetpack at 7:23 pm on July 4, 2009

This reads like a Myspace bulletin.
I was thinking the same thing

me too.


-- Posted by WickedWiccan at 4:27 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from LiveForeverDieTonite at 7:25 pm on July 4, 2009


Quote: from Sheebobee at 7:24 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from ToyJetpack at 7:23 pm on July 4, 2009

This reads like a Myspace bulletin.
I was thinking the same thing

me too.


I don't even have MySpace.


-- Posted by Vintorez at 4:28 pm on July 4, 2009

there is never a bad time for cuddling


-- Posted by WickedWiccan at 4:28 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:24 pm on July 4, 2009


So basically if we make one wrong move, we get dumped.
No. I think most girls are very patient and tolerant with the guys they love. It's not one wrong move, It's the same wrong move again and again and again.


-- Posted by acausedelle at 4:31 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from WickedWiccan at 6:28 pm on July 4, 2009


Quote: from im with stupid at 7:24 pm on July 4, 2009

So basically if we make one wrong move, we get dumped.
No. I think most girls are very patient and tolerant with the guys they love. It's not one wrong move, It's the same wrong move again and again and again.

Most of the girls I have seen don't bother to tell the guy about the problem, and as a result, he keeps on doing it.


-- Posted by deuces13 at 4:36 pm on July 4, 2009

I'll keep this in mind


-- Posted by WickedWiccan at 4:38 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:31 pm on July 4, 2009


Quote: from WickedWiccan at 6:28 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:24 pm on July 4, 2009

So basically if we make one wrong move, we get dumped.
No. I think most girls are very patient and tolerant with the guys they love. It's not one wrong move, It's the same wrong move again and again and again.

Most of the girls I have seen don't bother to tell the guy about the problem, and as a result, he keeps on doing it.


I didn't say we are perfect, lol. So why don't you post things all girls should know about guys?


-- Posted by acausedelle at 5:30 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from WickedWiccan at 6:38 pm on July 4, 2009


Quote: from im with stupid at 7:31 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from WickedWiccan at 6:28 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from im with stupid at 7:24 pm on July 4, 2009

So basically if we make one wrong move, we get dumped.
No. I think most girls are very patient and tolerant with the guys they love. It's not one wrong move, It's the same wrong move again and again and again.

 

 Most of the girls I have seen don't bother to tell the guy about the problem, and as a result, he keeps on doing it.  

 


I didn't say we are perfect, lol. So why don't you post things all girls should know about guys?

It would be too long, but easily correctable.


-- Posted by LoveKay at 12:56 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from Vintorez at 5:28 pm on July 4, 2009


there is never a bad time for cuddling
Thats what I was thinking.


-- Posted by nik1 at 2:09 am on July 5, 2009

My Space bulletin or not there is some damn good advice here!


-- Posted by Aimforthehead at 9:33 am on July 5, 2009

You say WE as if you speak for the female half of our species.
Sorry, I want a clingy girl who likes being called pretty all the time.


-- Posted by WickedWiccan at 10:54 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from Aimforthehead at 12:33 pm on July 5, 2009


You say WE as if you speak for the female half of our species.
Sorry, I want a clingy girl who likes being called pretty all the time.

So you basically want a needy girl with low self esteem.


-- Posted by Aimforthehead at 10:58 am on July 5, 2009

Quote: from WickedWiccan at 10:54 am on July 5, 2009


Quote: from Aimforthehead at 12:33 pm on July 5, 2009

You say WE as if you speak for the female half of our species.  
 Sorry, I want a clingy girl who likes being called pretty all the time.

So you basically want a needy girl with low self esteem.


Needy yes, the esteem part doesn't matter so much to me.


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