-- Posted by sharp7 at 10:24 am on July 4, 2009 If I like someone, I'll chase them for months, just leaving hints that I like them, but not actually saying it outfront. But always wondering if they like me back =/ I know that if I eventually tell them, they wont be interested, then I'll have to just get over them. But when You're just crushing on someone, erm... I don't know the word, just like you get infatuation. Or if you tell them straight away and they are interested, I'll go out with them, but then get bored not long after, and finish it. It's like I just like crushing on guys, but once I've got what I wanted, I don't want them anymore? What do you think?   -- Posted by Violently Happy at 10:25 am on July 4, 2009 You're normal. -- Posted by return2me at 10:25 am on July 4, 2009 this always happens to me. :S ive just had terrible luck, id like to think. so many girls have liked me back too late, or vise versa. its a pain. -- Posted by Brinkmannjg at 10:26 am on July 4, 2009 Normal. I think this pretty much how most people act. -- Posted by jewishbear at 10:28 am on July 4, 2009 YOU HAVE A BIG NOSE LOL -- Posted by mvmassacre at 10:29 am on July 4, 2009 I used to be like that until I found the one guy that absolutely swept me off my feet. -- Posted by Stars Fall For Us at 10:38 am on July 4, 2009 I don't understand why some girls are like that >.< I'm not, I don't get how you can get 'bored' with them -- Posted by Aria of Silence at 10:40 am on July 4, 2009 That happens a lot...we just build it up so much before hand that we're always underwhelmed. Don't worry, I matured out of it in my senior year, it'll pass. -- Posted by Miss Kaytee at 10:41 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Violently Happy at 10:25 am on July 4, 2009 You're normal. -- Posted by thatgirl9459 at 10:43 am on July 4, 2009 I totally know how you feel...I flirt with guys I like constantly...and I can't say I've actually ever had a REAL boyfriend because the moment I start 'going out' with them I feel trapped and have my friends breakup with them for me... And the only time I've had a relationship go on for more than two days all I did was talk on the phone with him, since we went to different schools we never got to see eachother and that only lasted for about a week...I don't know, but I feel closer to my crushes when I'm just hanging out with them and don't have to put a label on our feelings for each other... -- Posted by LoveKay at 12:12 pm on July 4, 2009 You just said that you like crushing on them but once its out in the open, they dont like you back so you have to move on. To me it sounds like you're just scared and want to stick to liking them in your head. -- Posted by kaylar28 at 9:26 pm on July 4, 2009 Either you dont know the person well enough to go into a relationship with them, or you just spend way to much time with them that bores you. Or you just have commitment issues.