-- Posted by Sexican at 10:20 am on July 4, 2009 how do you find out if your friend is asexual? He's 18 and never had a gf, we're not completely sure if he's straight. He's never shown interest in guys either. We make gay jokes all the time and he's always joined in. he says his reason for never getting with a girl is because he sees how much it messes with us(when bad relationships fuck us up) but the one girl he liked set her head in his lap to see if she could give him a boner...maybe he has control? but he didnt get one Is there like a test? and no we cant just ask him -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 10:21 am on July 4, 2009 Maybe he's just too shy to have a girlfriend. -- Posted by StraitjacketJunky at 10:22 am on July 4, 2009 If he does have control, he's one lucky bastard. Unwanted woods are the worst. -- Posted by rileyy at 10:22 am on July 4, 2009 its none of your fucking business what sexuality he is -- Posted by Sexican at 10:23 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from rileyissweet at 1:22 pm on July 4, 2009 its none of your fucking business what sexuality he is we're just curious you fuck tard, and he's one of my 3 best friends. i think it would be acceptble to just want to find out -- Posted by Areola at 10:24 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from rileyissweet at 1:22 pm on July 4, 2009 its none of your fucking business what sexuality he is Friends should be open with these types of things, so stfu. He's curious. I doubt he'd have anything against him if he was asexual. -- Posted by Moatilliata at 10:24 am on July 4, 2009 if he's good looking -- Posted by eklipse at 10:24 am on July 4, 2009 No. There isn't some magical test you can give him. You can't make him pee on a stick and see whether or not he's straight, gay, or asexual. So what. He hasn't had a girlfriend. Perhaps he's just overly shy. You can always just outright ask him whether or not he is asexual. Tests? Are you serious. -- Posted by MajorT0M at 10:25 am on July 4, 2009 Can't you just ask hi- oh. -- Posted by rileyy at 10:26 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Sexican at 10:23 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from rileyissweet at 1:22 pm on July 4, 2009 its none of your fucking business what sexuality he is we're just curious you fuck tard, and he's one of my 3 best friends. i think it would be acceptble to just want to find out it doesn't matter what sexuality he is, you finding out won't change it, just leave him alone -- Posted by Sexican at 10:27 am on July 4, 2009 and its not like we would change our opinion about him. He's still my best friend, and i have gay friends too. It would just mean we would stop wasting our time trying to hook him up with other girls -- Posted by SoNiCfAN123 at 10:33 am on July 4, 2009 you could ask him straight forward. if he doesnt know what it is you could look up something on the internet to explain it. really the only way you can know for sure is if says it -- Posted by Aria of Silence at 10:47 am on July 4, 2009 He might just be shy...I have a really good friend like that as well. In any case, just be straightforward and ask him. -- Posted by KevF at 8:32 pm on July 4, 2009 He's probably just a bit shy about it. I've been a sexual person since a very young age. I had my first crushed aged just 8 or 9, was the first of my friends to discuss it openly with the others, was the first of my friends to get a girlfriend and had childish crushes on actresses and actors in pretty much every show or film I liked. However, most my friends were more interested in the latest game or action figure.