-- Posted by tearful at 7:11 pm on July 3, 2009 i have this gay guy friend, who's nice to me when he needs advice or when he's bored. other than that, when he's out with his boyfriend or other friends he'll act like a total dick when i call or text him. i'll ask him how he's doing or if he wants to hangout and he'll usually respond by saying. "uhh im busy ok ttyl" and even on the phone hell give me attitude and say "what? i cant talk right now" he's just such a dick! hes ALWAYS saying hes busy in a very rude wayand for weeks he wouldnt answer my calls or texts and now that his bf broke up with him hes calling me again. fuck that! now im not answering his texts or calls and hes mad cuz i dont answer when he's the one that's been ignoring for almost two months! -- Posted by Kaijuu at 7:12 pm on July 3, 2009 Just stop being his friend I feel like I've read this before.. -- Posted by sunflower915 at 7:13 pm on July 3, 2009 good dont answer -- Posted by note to self at 7:13 pm on July 3, 2009 I have a friend who is really cool when it's just him and you or only one other person, but when he gets around his friends he's a real dick. I don't like it at all. -- Posted by w T A Z w at 7:14 pm on July 3, 2009 sadly some gay guys are just like that... get a new gay friend :-) -- Posted by Pika Pie at 7:16 pm on July 3, 2009 Its simple tell him if he really wants to be your friend he will stop he isn't a true friend if he isn't nice to you and doesn't treat you right. -- Posted by tearful at 7:29 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Pika Pie at 7:16 pm on July 3, 2009 Its simple tell him if he really wants to be your friend he will stop he isn't a true friend if he isn't nice to you and doesn't treat you right.                                  ooooh, i've had many talks with him about this for a few years now, but the fucker never changes. he always apologizes and says he did wrong, but hes never said he wont do it again. i think i need to stop hanging out with him. i need better friends. ive been a very good friend to him and i get nothing in return. i need to stand up for myself now. -- Posted by EmilyAnn at 9:57 am on July 4, 2009 I probably wouldn't consider this guy your friend... He probably just doesn't know how to tell you that he doesn't want to be friends with you. I guess I'm kind of rude to people that I don't want to be friends with who want to be friends with me. It sucks, but what do you say? "Hey, I want nothing to do with you. You're annoying; leave me alone." Just start ignoring him and see what happens. -- Posted by Becky05001994 at 10:52 am on July 4, 2009 my ex best mate used to do tht. as soon as her bf dumped her she was back texting and ringing quicker than you can say dumped. however our friendship ended a month ago when she started been off with me and then said she wanted to end our friendship, i was in agreement but she carried on been a bitch. i never knew what i had done until someone told me yesterday its because i stuck up for my lil sister not her. friends like tht r not worth it. now shes munipulating everyone around me trying to turn them against me, shes even told my bf i'm cheating on him. so much for best mates are for life my arse -- Posted by BVPISTHEBEST at 1:39 pm on July 4, 2009 i know what your saying I'm friend does that too but i learned to not to talk to that person... one they my "friend" ask me why i wont really talk to him and i said because you could be a fuck dick sometimes..... -- Posted by tearful at 5:26 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from EmilyAnn at 9:57 am on July 4, 2009 I probably wouldn't consider this guy your friend... He probably just doesn't know how to tell you that he doesn't want to be friends with you. I guess I'm kind of rude to people that I don't want to be friends with who want to be friends with me. It sucks, but what do you say? "Hey, I want nothing to do with you. You're annoying; leave me alone."   Just start ignoring him and see what happens.                              well ive been ignoring him for about two weeks now and he has +been texting me and calling me a few times to hangout, so i know hes not trying to get rid of me, he just wants to hangout with me when hes really bored or when he needs advice. plus, him and his bf just broke up so that's why hes starting to try to get a hold of me now. -- Posted by dreamin at 6:43 pm on July 4, 2009 o wow. yea just don't talk to him, he's an ass. He can get his other friends for advice! smh. -- Posted by tearful at 8:42 pm on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Becky05001994 at 10:52 am on July 4, 2009my ex best mate used to do tht. as soon as her bf dumped her she was back texting and ringing quicker than you can say dumped. however our friendship ended a month ago when she started been off with me and then said she wanted to end our friendship, i was in agreement but she carried on been a bitch. i never knew what i had done until someone told me yesterday its because i stuck up for my lil sister not her.   friends like tht r not worth it. now shes munipulating everyone around me trying to turn them against me,                    wow that girl is a fucked up bitch, damn im seeing that there are many bad friends out there :-/ well you dont deserve to be treated bad, and od course you were guna stick up for your sis! there has to be better friends out there!