-- Posted by Pika Pie at 7:11 pm on July 3, 2009 Okay. I love my boyfriend. I have known him for a very long time. Well, We started to date and I fell in love with him YADA YAdA yada lol Well, the thing is. He was the second boy I had ever kissed and well, thats it! Thats all we have done. Well, My cousin spread this rumor around that we had sex. I personally don't know what you (whoever is reading this) belives, but I don't believe in sex before marraige, so I was shocked and then I was mad cuz we haven't. Well, she told my mom we did do alot of stuff and now my mom doesn't trust me. We used to have a really good relationship and now we don't just bcuz someone decided to lie. I don't understand...this sucks bendy straws.. blah.. help?? -- Posted by Pika Pie at 7:12 pm on July 3, 2009 Oh btw. the relationship that was ruined was between me and my mom. We used to be really close like she was my best friend. and now that my cuz lied we arent anymore -- Posted by devilmaycrydude at 7:12 pm on July 3, 2009 beat the fucking shit out of your cousin with a golf club! jk tell her/him off -- Posted by See Me Now at 7:14 pm on July 3, 2009 I think you should sit down with your mom, and tell her that you'd talk to her first before thinking about having sex, because you value her input and opinion (whether its true or not). That will make her feel better. Tell her nothing has happened with this boy, and that you don't feel ready to do the things your cousin said you've done. Saying that should reassure her, and make her feel like a part of your life. -- Posted by tearful at 7:22 pm on July 3, 2009 if you and your mom were so close i think yoi can be able to sit with her and have a serious talk with her. tell her that you truly believe that sex should be after marriage and exactly what you told us, tell it to her. i hope she believes you, and you should also talk to your stupid custin and ask her why she said that lie. if she said it just to be a bitch and to get you in trouble, then dont talk to her again. &ld spread a nasty rumor about her as well. payback's a bitch. -- Posted by ElectricLadyFlash at 7:24 pm on July 3, 2009 Your COUSIN? Wow, family is vindictive as hell these days! -- Posted by Leannbby at 7:26 pm on July 3, 2009 i had that to happen. my cousin got her MOM to call my mom and say i had sex with some redhead in the woods? i was furious i talked to my mother about it and she got where i was coming from also i wanted to kill my cousin...just saying