-- Posted by whatbrittney at 5:27 pm on July 3, 2009 Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little bit over 2 monthes now and she sees nohting wrong with telling people .. but i dont let her. Should i? Because im almost positive people would think of me differently .. -- Posted by Kaijuu at 5:28 pm on July 3, 2009 You should are you ashamed of her? if so, you don't deserve her. -- Posted by Aileyy at 5:29 pm on July 3, 2009 Well you hiding it and being ashamed of it will only give those people more of a reason to think of you differently. -- Posted by Poetic Believer at 5:29 pm on July 3, 2009 When I told, people didnt really think of me differently. They saw it in me to begin with. -- Posted by katkatkat at 5:30 pm on July 3, 2009 if they think of you differently, that's their problem. think of it this way: it's who you are.  if you're that positive about your sexuality at age fourteen, i don't see anything wrong with having a girlfriend.  even if you weren't positive, there shouldn't be a problem because you are who you are, and really, nobody should interfere with that. i know you're afraid that people are going to think of you differently, and that's a scary thought.  the truth is, some people probably will.  keep in mind, though, that there isn't much you can do about it other than roll with the punches.  i went through the same thing, and know how difficult a process it is to go through.  you'll get through it though. if you ever need to talk to anyone, pm me.  i'm all ears. -- Posted by Love Me please at 5:31 pm on July 3, 2009 you really should not mind if she tells people i never mind it i just love it -- Posted by aejae at 5:34 pm on July 3, 2009 you're... a boy? -- Posted by nik1 at 2:50 am on July 4, 2009 Talking about what you do privately with a person is a good indication of her poor character.  Violating confidentiality is a no-no and would be a deal breaker for me. -- Posted by xestrangedx at 2:55 am on July 4, 2009 A person shouldn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend at your age. You wont be taken seriously because you are still a child everyone will think its a phrase and it probably is. Keep it a secret until your about 18 or 19. -- Posted by LvL at 5:47 pm on July 14, 2009 Quote: from xestrangedx at 2:55 am on July 4, 2009 A person shouldn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend at your age. You wont be taken seriously because you are still a child everyone will think its a phrase and it probably is. Keep it a secret until your about 18 or 19. Ignore this, if your happy being bi/lesbian/gay then don't be embarrassed of peoples opinions. Most people are ignorant do what feels right and be happy that you can accept it.