-- Posted by Gaelle at 2:37 am on July 3, 2009 A couple in my circle of friends broke up last week. They both decided that it's for the best and that they just don't love each other anymore. They were together for 6 years...and now they absolutely hate each other. The way they talk about each other is ridiculously mean... I really don't get it. -- Posted by NEGATIVE0 at 2:38 am on July 3, 2009 just how some relationships end, really. it wasn't meant to be. -- Posted by danzelx at 2:38 am on July 3, 2009 Because they are hurting. -- Posted by Leannbby at 2:38 am on July 3, 2009 i get it...its just hard to explain they are talking like that because their probably full of insecure regret and are at their lowest points. -- Posted by Sector Corrupt at 2:39 am on July 3, 2009 ... Yeah, considering it sounds like they broke it off on good terms... Normally the hatred it reserved for messy breakups. -- Posted by Mein Alias at 2:40 am on July 3, 2009 It's because they secretly want to continue having sex, but neither of them have the balls to apologize so they funnel their angst into a form of aggression which will continue to expand exponentially as their lust for one another will continue to become increasingly frustrated, which will add more to the rage. You should pull one of those cartoon-esque stunts by sending letters out to both of them with each other's names, asking them out for a date at a fancy place you paid a reservation for. -- Posted by Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"? -- Posted by xestrangedx at 1:05 pm on July 3, 2009 People change? -- Posted by Aileyy at 1:39 pm on July 3, 2009 Maybe they just werent getting what they needed from each other anymore and they could both be hurt that it didnt work.  It might not just be that they hate each other. -- Posted by Mimic at 1:58 pm on July 3, 2009 It just happens that way sometimes, you can't be together, but being apart causes you to hate them because you don't always want to lose what you've lost. -- Posted by Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"? They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either. -- Posted by Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"? They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either. Idk if I'd call that love then. -- Posted by Gaelle at 2:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?    They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either. Idk if I'd call that love then. Pay attenton to the first sentence. "They stopped loving each other." -- Posted by Aimforthehead at 4:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?   They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either.    Idk if I'd call that love then. Pay attenton to the first sentence. "They stopped loving each other." I meant I wouldn't call what they had before that love. Love doesn't just -stop-, if it does, then love wouldn't really be great at all...what they had was pathetic either way. -- Posted by Gaelle at 2:45 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 4:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?       They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either.   Idk if I'd call that love then.    Pay attention to the first sentence.    "They stopped loving each other." I meant I wouldn't call what they had before that love.   Love doesn't just -stop-, if it does, then love wouldn't really be great at all...what they had was pathetic either way. I think we've had a fight about this before, so I'm just going to take your opinion and say that I disagree. -- Posted by she rockz at 4:34 am on July 4, 2009 there's no love anymore or they're sick of each other's flaws.