-- Posted by doiochiverzi at 12:17 pm on July 2, 2009 I caught my boyfriend having sex related conversations with... many different girls... he agrees that it was cheating... but I was wondering what you think... because currently we are trying to work things out... but I know that if he'd actually BEEN with these girls I would never forgive him... he also has a history of self esteem issues which he believes and i agree were the underlying reasons he was doing this in the first place.. he has agreed to get help for his issues... so right now i'm just going to see what happens -- Posted by DaisyMontana at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009 Yes, and he might cheated on u in real life -- Posted by Clara Bell at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009 It's a form of cheating yea. -- Posted by Bagheera at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009 Not in my opinion. -- Posted by RIMHfire at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009 Like talking dirty with other girls? -- Posted by Kaijuu at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009 It's cheating -- Posted by bawx II at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009 If that's true, then a lot of girls on here cheated with their boyfriends wif mii. NEWD CINTRAL OVER HER! -- Posted by acolb at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009 the same thing happened to me - i SAW his texts with other girls and i got SOO pissed. i didn;t know what to do either or how to feel about it. mostly i was just hurt. but he and i tried working it out and we're doing really well now. i'm undecided whetehr it's cheating or not. -- Posted by soccerislife at 12:19 pm on July 2, 2009 CHEATING=YES. -- Posted by easley6 at 12:20 pm on July 2, 2009 yes -- Posted by mskennybaby at 12:21 pm on July 2, 2009 sexting is cheating and its best you'd leave him -- Posted by technole at 12:21 pm on July 2, 2009 I don't personally think sexting is cheating just because its not physical. If you tell someone via text what you would do to them in the sack, doesn't always mean its going to happen. -- Posted by iswat at 12:21 pm on July 2, 2009 I think Its a bad sign . -- Posted by Leica at 12:22 pm on July 2, 2009 Not cheating. Just a little irresponsible. -- Posted by Ziggy Stardust at 12:27 pm on July 2, 2009 ye it is -- Posted by Live Just To Die at 4:27 pm on July 2, 2009 I say yeah... I mean it's a breach of trust for one thing, and it leads people on. It's mean. -- Posted by morrisonsMYmuse at 7:45 pm on July 2, 2009 yes. i would call it cheating. because so many people place so little value on sex these days.. people are in and out of each others beds all the time. like it's going out of style or something... the cheating part is the mental or emotional connection you have with the other person.. and you have that wheather things get physical or not. so, self esteem may be his issue.. but it's no excuse for having intimate conversations with other girls while he's in a relationship with you. he should come to you when he's feeling down about himself... just my opinion.