-- Posted by Anonymous at 2:27 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Ok heres the problem I'm in a long distance relationship and so in order to cope with us not being able to be together right now, my love and I found other outlets for stimulation. and that's been fine up until two days ago. He decided to go stay over at a friends of his that he hasn't seen in awhile and one of whom I don't know well any way he was using the guys cellphone when he talked to me and I'm guessing didn't delete my number off he phone. well night before last it was late and I thought "he" called me and well we were talking and all that and we well... anyway I couldn't help but notice he sounded funny only talking in a whisper but he said he was tired so I didn't stress to much on it. and then last night I was talking to him online and got tired and messaged him telling him I was going to bed. well again I got a call and again he sounded funny but I didn't think to much on it because again he sounded tired. Today I get a call from him and he said he never called me last night but that I had called his friend to say I was going to bed. (I have never done this before, an especially on someone's phone whom I don't know  well) I explained this to him and now we can't figure out what the hell happened because only two things could've happened either I really did talk to my love and he was to tired to remember or his friend called me and pretended to be him and I cheated on my old man unknowingly and that makes me want to vomit. Help!   -- Posted by danbev at 2:30 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 what exactly do you need help with...? -- Posted by Points at 2:30 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Wait, you called to say you were going to bed? That's not cheating. It's not your fault if you didn't realize you called the wrong guy. It's the friends fault for going with it. Your boyfriend will understand that, I hope. -- Posted by CarlyCat10 at 2:30 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I dont know what to say. That sucks sorry -- Posted by Anonymous at 2:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Points at 2:30 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Wait, you called to say you were going to bed? That's not cheating. It's not your fault if you didn't realize you called the wrong guy. It's the friends fault for going with it. Your boyfriend will understand that, I hope. I never called to say I was going to bed I never called at all he always called me and what we tlked about last was not to say good night it was something on a more personal level if you catch my drift -- Posted by kissmeintherain91 at 2:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 You didn't cheat on him... -- Posted by Anonymous at 2:40 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from kissmeintherain91 at 2:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 You didn't cheat on him... god it feels like it -- Posted by Craziie at 2:56 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Hmm, This dilemma really is'nt your fault. How were you to know that it was actually your boyfriend? I wouldn't blame this on myself. Just talk to ur hunnie, ask questionsz, and explain what happened. I'm sure he'd understand everything you have to say. Good luck! xo -- Posted by Points at 3:36 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 10:35 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Points at 2:30 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Wait, you called to say you were going to bed? That's not cheating.    It's not your fault if you didn't realize you called the wrong guy. It's the friends fault for going with it.    Your boyfriend will understand that, I hope.     I never called to say I was going to bed I never called at all he always called me and what we tlked about last was not to say good night it was something on a more personal level if you catch my drift I know how you mean. You feel like you've been personal with somebody else, when it's only meant for you and your boyfriend. But it was an accident and you didn't cheat on him. Try not to beat yourself up too much; I'm sure he'll understand. :)