-- Posted by DanaLovs15 at 10:56 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Anyone have people around u who are super jelous. Maybe ur jelous or whatever. Sryyy, wasnt finished. Okay, well my best friend is acting really wierd. I think she is depressed but i have no idea how to help her. If i ask her if she is okay, she just says "Im Fine". Its driving me nuts. I feel bad because she told me a couple months ago she thinks i outshine her becuase im really good stuff or some crap and i get better grades and all this stuff. I fell like she secretly hates me. Its kinda true tho. I was the lead in the school play, Im in student council, The musical, and i get good grades. But i dont think its a big deal. Its becuase shes lazy and never wants to try anything. -- Posted by CassiBunny at 10:56 am on Jan. 6, 2009 ya -- Posted by santana 08 at 10:56 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Im super jealous... -- Posted by yellowsapphire at 10:58 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Never heard about anyone ever being "jelous"....whatever THAT is.... -- Posted by atomictastic at 11:00 am on Jan. 6, 2009 I can be jealous but I don't show it. That kind of stuff I keep to myself. -- Posted by oridniv at 11:12 am on Jan. 6, 2009 as long as u love urself that's all that matters -- Posted by envyeyz709 at 11:14 am on Jan. 6, 2009 encourage her. point out her good qualities, and tell her why she shouldn't be jealous -- Posted by LoveKay at 1:34 pm on Jan. 6, 2009 I don't think she hates you. Most people mistake jealousy for hate. I have a lot of girls in this town who hate me, girls whom I have never even met in my life. Just because of things they hear. But I don't care; it's flattering, actually. She might not be depressed, but she probably is jealous of you. it's like the same as when I am with a friend who is thin and pretty, and even though I am not fat, I feel too big. You could make her feel better by complimenting your friend on some of her own good qualities. Perhaps she lacks confidence and doesn't get complimented enough. Encourage her to do well in school such as do homework and less skipping. Invite her when you go do something productive and think she would enjoy it.