-- Posted by LovePrincess at 10:42 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 Hey i know this maybe a dumb post but I'm wondering.. How can i get my confidence up,I'm a very insecure around people i don't know,and i really want to change that but i dont know how :/ -- Posted by TBMP at 10:43 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 honestly, just do it. it's hard, but it gets easier as u go. -- Posted by x0fantasy20 at 10:44 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 i am too man :( i need help with self-esteem issues too -- Posted by No idea at 10:44 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 I used to be insecure too, but then i stopped caring about what people thought of me and now i dont give a fuck   -- Posted by LovePrincess at 10:46 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 yeah but i've tried not caring but it doesnt work well for me ah idk :/ -- Posted by moonandstars at 10:47 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 listen to no idea hahha nice but forreal if u think u are fine dont give a fuck u put make uop on dress up do what makes u feel good youll feel better in no time if u want switch up ur diet make u feel like u have control of yourself n what otehrs think -- Posted by bass09 at 10:49 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 don't worry about what other people think -- Posted by patchysmiles at 10:50 pm on Jan. 5, 2009 just make sure you dont care what people think and talk to people more -- Posted by Helios at 2:04 am on Jan. 6, 2009 Well one thing you can do is stand in front of a mirror and point at the things you like about yourself. MAybe make a list of your attributes and concentrate and meditate on them...the more you look the more you'll find until your confidence is through the roof.