-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:08 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 I just can't take it. I'm not feeling safe right now. I just had an argument with my sister, then my mom started yelling at me. My mom is in a predicament where she cannot drive, so my sister came down so that she can do all the driving. Well, all day my sister (i'm 18, she's 21) has been ordering me around and telling me what I can and cannot do, etc. So I got tired of it, so I confronted her about it. She blew up, started insulting me and calling me names and saying I'm selfish and manipulative. She brought up that I'm schizophrenic and she called me a sick freak. Then she said she was going to leave. So I apologized and asked her to stay.I didn't thing I was wrong, but I knew my mom needed her. She refused. So then, my mom started yelling at me. I don't see how I'm wrong. I have no friends-- they are the only two people in the world that i have! I just feel like hurting myself now and i don't know what to do. PLease help me! -- Posted by grinzbie at 6:10 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 well dont take it out on urself. They are both prolly really stressed with the situation.  Im sure and I hope they come around -- Posted by error at 6:11 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 try not to hurt yourself, you did nothing wrong, its just stress and you'll regret it later and so will they. -- Posted by ivegotquestions at 6:12 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 maybe she is the schizo, idk thats not suppose to be mean just saying. -- Posted by looking4her7 at 6:13 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 hmmm well maybe there just idiots? -- Posted by Twist3dHop3s at 6:14 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 hurting yourself isn't the answer. -- Posted by whips handcuffs at 6:15 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 you shouldn't have to take everything they say to heart, they are people who will treat you better in the real world. you can pm me anytime you want if you want to talk. -- Posted by sabz at 6:23 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 i'd just suggest getting out there and making friends! sometimes its good to get away from family. plus, you're 18, your sister can't tell you what to do or what not to do. that's your sister trying to make herself seem high and mighty, like she has something over you...why don't you just drive for your mom? -- Posted by brunette 17 at 6:23 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 i think you should try talking to your mom. tell her how you feel...tell her how much she hurt you by yelling at you...that was very mean of your sister to say. she is the wrong one. -- Posted by latric3 at 6:26 pm on Oct. 7, 2008 Older siblings are kinda naturally inclined to boss u around, usually for ur best interest, but u were right to confront her if she was being overbearing. I think she's being kinda immature knowing ur mom needs a driver, so ur mom should be yelling at her and not you.