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Raiku
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Posted at 6:47 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| well they dont love the real me and im doing it for a fighting chance against being hated upon by society |
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eklipse
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Posted at 6:44 pm on July 9, 2009 |
Quote: from Raiku at 9:31 pm on July 9, 2009
you really think life is a fairy tale? that because im just living, someone will want me? life never works out that way. we live in a shallow world. it dosent matter what i do or if s/hell accept me, anyone who finds out about my disability or just what i like/dislike dosent want anything to do with me. at least surgery will help make it so that mayabe they wont want to leave me even though im the person i am 
Do I honestly really think that life is a fairy tale? Well, no. Life has so many damn twists and turns in it that it will never be perfect. We just have to make the best of things with what we have and using the opportunities that we can. Again, just because you are living and capable of talking, doesn't mean people will just be flocking towards you and wanting you. You have to have a personality. You have to appeal to someone. Most people aren't as shallow as you think and will just toss us aside because we might not look to the best of our ability. They generally dig much deeper to get to our core/root values. Surgery solves nothing. It basically shows that you are giving up, and taking the easy root out. It shows that you just want to change every inch of yourself that makes you yourself. In the end, are they really going to love the real you (which is most important) or are they going to love the appearance of someone different? |
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Raiku
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Posted at 6:31 pm on July 9, 2009 |
Quote: from The Academy at 9:17 pm on July 9, 2009
Seriously, why alter yourself because you don't like what you look like? Someone is bound to come along and love you for what your personality/emotions are about. It shouldn't be solely on looks. For you not to have enough confidence in yourself is just a tad sad. I wouldn't recommend surgery. You can always work-out and do other things of that manner. Why change physical features you weren't born with? That's just basically showing that you are being fake and can't live with yourself. Your better than that. Have more self-confidence, and take the time to better your appearance manually. Get out and socialize, and find someone for you. Who cares whats solely on the outside? If you want surgery, that's your choice, but just be ready for the pocket-burner and the not-so-lovely possible outcome.
you really think life is a fairy tale? that because im just living, someone will want me? life never works out that way. we live in a shallow world. it dosent matter what i do or if s/hell accept me, anyone who finds out about my disability or just what i like/dislike dosent want anything to do with me. at least surgery will help make it so that mayabe they wont want to leave me even though im the person i am |
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emo16
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Posted at 6:27 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| dont do that dude. u will like come out with a messed up face probebly and that would be like abunch of money down the drain |
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Tarhanosaurus Sexx
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Posted at 6:20 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| That's horrible. You shouldn't be so down on yourself. ]= |
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Sexican
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Posted at 6:18 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| I read this topic with the vegan topic underneath it and at a glance i thought it said "I hate my vagina" |
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eklipse
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Posted at 6:17 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| Seriously, why alter yourself because you don't like what you look like? Someone is bound to come along and love you for what your personality/emotions are about. It shouldn't be solely on looks. For you not to have enough confidence in yourself is just a tad sad. I wouldn't recommend surgery. You can always work-out and do other things of that manner. Why change physical features you weren't born with? That's just basically showing that you are being fake and can't live with yourself. Your better than that. Have more self-confidence, and take the time to better your appearance manually. Get out and socialize, and find someone for you. Who cares whats solely on the outside? If you want surgery, that's your choice, but just be ready for the pocket-burner and the not-so-lovely possible outcome. |
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NakedSun
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Posted at 6:17 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| meee tooooo haha. |
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Neodymie
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Posted at 6:17 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| I don't think surgery would help. |
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wildflower
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Posted at 6:16 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| That kind of negativity won't get you far in life |
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Rockylife
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Posted at 6:16 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| U shouldn't be so down on urself.. I bet ur not ugly |
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Doubleshift
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Posted at 6:15 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| You're not ugly. D: |
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Dreams to Despair
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Posted at 6:15 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| Are you fishing for compliments on your looks? =/ |
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melodramatic
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Posted at 6:15 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| Honestly, Hating yourself won't do you a bit of good. You are who you are, and that's how you were born. Might as well accept yourself and embrace other things you are good at. Also, There are ways other than plastic surgery you can improve yourself. Keep your chin up. |
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RayOrama
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Posted at 6:15 pm on July 9, 2009 |
| Never hate yourself. Others will do that for you for no eason at all. Why help them? |
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