Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Lost. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]TDC[/m] at 12:48 am on July 7, 2009[quote]The best approach would be to make a list of the traits from your prior personality and your new one.  Then use that list to figure out what about your friend brings on that specific trait from your (Prior Self) List.  If this new personality is who you want to be then just acting like yourself should be enough.  If you have to continuously correct yourself you might want to think on whether this is who you are.. or who you want to be. [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post dancetillyadrop Posted at 6:36 pm on July 6, 2009 I know who I am, I know who I was, and I have no intention of being who I was, because "who I am hates who I've been." I made huge mistakes in the past and instead of regretting them, I'm letting them stay in the past and not worrying about them anymore. Typically when I'm around someone who I was best friends with before and kind of lost touch with, I'm completely okay being the person that I am now. They're a little suprised, but they realize that we all change and that the change I made in myself was for the better. But when I'm around one of my past and now current best friends, I start to be the person I was. I don't know what it is about her, but its like she brings out that person and I don't know why. I know what you're thinking "Then just don't be friends with her...!" Not going to happen, we were best friends my eighth grade year/her seventh grade year and when I went to high school we lost touch and last year through my Sophomore year/her Freshman year we weren't really as close. It was during the time between February 2008-Janruary 2009 I went through this huge change, and now it's like when her and I hang out like we did today, I notice the person I was starting to come out and I don't want that. What can I do to make it stop and show her the real, new me?

Replies StraitjacketJunky Posted at 10:44 pm on July 7, 2009 I'm assuming you're just not used to the change. She hasn't been introduced to the "new you", and you don't know how to introduce your new self. Maybe you're afraid of the change, or that you'll lose your friend. Feel free to PM me about this any time.   TDC Posted at 12:48 am on July 7, 2009 The best approach would be to make a list of the traits from your prior personality and your new one.  Then use that list to figure out what about your friend brings on that specific trait from your (Prior Self) List.  If this new personality is who you want to be then just acting like yourself should be enough.  If you have to continuously correct yourself you might want to think on whether this is who you are.. or who you want to be. All 2 previous replies displayed.