The top 10 things that girls do that turn me on/interest me:
1) Bisexual- I have no idea why, but almost every girl i've ever been interested in seriously, with the exception of my last girlfriend, was bisexual, or at least heavily curious. Bi girls just seem to have better outlooks on life and sexuality to me.
2) Small/Medium Breasts- For me the smaller variety is better, in part due to that they fit into #3 better.
3) Thin- Sorry, but it's what i'm attracted to. I like being able to pick her up easily, sit on my lap without pain, and be fairly toned.
4) Short- Some guys and girls are all about people being tall, i think it's overrated. Girls under 5'6" are the best.
5) Small ass- also some guys like to have a 'shelf to put their beer on', but girls with little to no ass are the best for me.
6) Smart- I don't care what your SATs are, but if you can't talk about arts, movies, science, or at least one interesting field in depth, then i'm not interested. If you have one field that you are interested in, even if i know nothing about it, it's a great thing.
7) Straightforward- I can't stand girls playing bullshit games with email/phone calls/what they really mean, and what they say. I think girls get worse with age for this. Girls that are younger than me never play these games, but girls that are older than me are constantly beating around the bush. Just say either, 'I like you' or 'I don't like you'.
8) Strong opinions- I like a girl that will disagree with me, and not back down on some fundamental topic or view. I don't like this if they have nothing backing it up (to me alot of religious people are like this), but if they have reasoning- then they should not just be a pushover.
9) Geeky- Geeky girls are so cute. If you are better at video games than me (just got beat by a girl this morning), or try to convince me to use Linux instead of my beloved Mac OS X, or correct me on techincal things, wow that's a turnon.
10) Decent Musical tastes- Sounds odd, but so many people like really crappy music. They will just be like, 'eww 80's music' (probably too young for me), or not understand where something comes from. If all you like is rap, but don't understand where it came from, or if all you like is super pop crap, then that's not cool. A girl seriously turned me on recently, when I got in the car with her, I had radiohead and a few other things in the CD player, and she was very happy. I guess i'm a musician, so if all you like is Pink, i've got a problem with you.
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Asides from just the opposite of the above, my top 10 turnoffs.
1) Bitchy- You can be a smartass. I like girls having wit and using it (a lost art to many these days), but if you are just a bitch, then that's not cool. Girls that do this have been told that they are cute one too many times, and think that they are better than everyone else
2) Golddiggers- I'm a very generous person, but if all you are concerned about is my job, vs some other guy's, or what i'm getting you for your birthday, or what type of car I drive... goodbye!
3) Girls too young for me- It makes me feel like a bad person in so many ways if a girl that's 16 is hitting on me, since i'm 21. I hate to be a dick and say no, because there's a good chance that you are attractive, but at the same time... No. 18+ only for me from now on. High school relationships are just not for me.
4) Girls that lie- Too many girls seem to lie constantly. What's the point?
5) Girls that are too easy- Ok, we all like quick hookups sometimes, but if a girl is basically just throwing herself at me... not good. At least let me have a challenge for a little while, and while I appreciate you being direct, it makes me feel like a slut if you are wanting sex within 4 hours of meeting me.
6) Girls with no interests- "I like to, umm, hang out? Umm... i watch TV?" Not good! Get a life, so that I can be interested in it!
7) Not shaving!- It's the worst thing in the world, to either find that a girl doesn't shave her legs, or if you get her pants off... find that she doesn't shave down there either. At least trim! Or i'm not going down on it! And no i'm not a hypocrit. I trim/shave a bit for you girls, i don't want you gagging on a hairball either!
8) Unreliable- Its not cool if you want to cancel plans all the time, or it's impossible to get time with you anyway.
9) Teases- Do I have to say anymore?
10) Uncultured- If all you understand is your little tiny redneck town, not cool. Have a greater view of the world, and i will be far more interested. If your definition of cheese is Kraft, and the only people you have seen are one race, or one religion, then you probably need to get out more!
This guy should really setle for less, at times.
Damn dude...just take a girl for what she is. You'll probably spend half your life trying to find a girl like that.
^ I like that<3
While I know that there's plenty of lists and stuff, hell i thought to start my own. Maybe this one wouldn be good enough eventually for a stickie :) The top 10 things that girls do that turn me on/interest me: 1) Bisexual- I have no idea why, but almost every girl i've ever been interested in seriously, with the exception of my last girlfriend, was bisexual, or at least heavily curious. Bi girls just seem to have better outlooks on life and sexuality to me. 2) Small/Medium Breasts- For me the smaller variety is better, in part due to that they fit into #3 better. 3) Thin- Sorry, but it's what i'm attracted to. I like being able to pick her up easily, sit on my lap without pain, and be fairly toned. 4) Short- Some guys and girls are all about people being tall, i think it's overrated. Girls under 5'6" are the best. 5) Small ass- also some guys like to have a 'shelf to put their beer on', but girls with little to no ass are the best for me. 6) Smart- I don't care what your SATs are, but if you can't talk about arts, movies, science, or at least one interesting field in depth, then i'm not interested. If you have one field that you are interested in, even if i know nothing about it, it's a great thing. 7) Straightforward- I can't stand girls playing bullshit games with email/phone calls/what they really mean, and what they say. I think girls get worse with age for this. Girls that are younger than me never play these games, but girls that are older than me are constantly beating around the bush. Just say either, 'I like you' or 'I don't like you'. 8) Strong opinions- I like a girl that will disagree with me, and not back down on some fundamental topic or view. I don't like this if they have nothing backing it up (to me alot of religious people are like this), but if they have reasoning- then they should not just be a pushover. 9) Geeky- Geeky girls are so cute. If you are better at video games than me (just got beat by a girl this morning), or try to convince me to use Linux instead of my beloved Mac OS X, or correct me on techincal things, wow that's a turnon. 10) Decent Musical tastes- Sounds odd, but so many people like really crappy music. They will just be like, 'eww 80's music' (probably too young for me), or not understand where something comes from. If all you like is rap, but don't understand where it came from, or if all you like is super pop crap, then that's not cool. A girl seriously turned me on recently, when I got in the car with her, I had radiohead and a few other things in the CD player, and she was very happy. I guess i'm a musician, so if all you like is Pink, i've got a problem with you. -------- Asides from just the opposite of the above, my top 10 turnoffs. 1) Bitchy- You can be a smartass. I like girls having wit and using it (a lost art to many these days), but if you are just a bitch, then that's not cool. Girls that do this have been told that they are cute one too many times, and think that they are better than everyone else 2) Golddiggers- I'm a very generous person, but if all you are concerned about is my job, vs some other guy's, or what i'm getting you for your birthday, or what type of car I drive... goodbye! 3) Girls too young for me- It makes me feel like a bad person in so many ways if a girl that's 16 is hitting on me, since i'm 21. I hate to be a dick and say no, because there's a good chance that you are attractive, but at the same time... No. 18+ only for me from now on. High school relationships are just not for me. 4) Girls that lie- Too many girls seem to lie constantly. What's the point? 5) Girls that are too easy- Ok, we all like quick hookups sometimes, but if a girl is basically just throwing herself at me... not good. At least let me have a challenge for a little while, and while I appreciate you being direct, it makes me feel like a slut if you are wanting sex within 4 hours of meeting me. 6) Girls with no interests- "I like to, umm, hang out? Umm... i watch TV?" Not good! Get a life, so that I can be interested in it! 7) Not shaving!- It's the worst thing in the world, to either find that a girl doesn't shave her legs, or if you get her pants off... find that she doesn't shave down there either. At least trim! Or i'm not going down on it! And no i'm not a hypocrit. I trim/shave a bit for you girls, i don't want you gagging on a hairball either! 8) Unreliable- Its not cool if you want to cancel plans all the time, or it's impossible to get time with you anyway. 9) Teases- Do I have to say anymore? 10) Uncultured- If all you understand is your little tiny redneck town, not cool. Have a greater view of the world, and i will be far more interested. If your definition of cheese is Kraft, and the only people you have seen are one race, or one religion, then you probably need to get out more!
I would have said the exact same thing.
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