Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic How can love turn into so much hate? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]danzelx[/m] at 2:38 am on July 3, 2009[quote]Because they are hurting.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Gaelle Posted at 2:37 am on July 3, 2009 A couple in my circle of friends broke up last week. They both decided that it's for the best and that they just don't love each other anymore. They were together for 6 years...and now they absolutely hate each other. The way they talk about each other is ridiculously mean... I really don't get it.

Replies she rockz Posted at 4:34 am on July 4, 2009 there's no love anymore or they're sick of each other's flaws. Gaelle Posted at 2:45 am on July 4, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 4:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?       They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either.   Idk if I'd call that love then.    Pay attention to the first sentence.    "They stopped loving each other." I meant I wouldn't call what they had before that love.   Love doesn't just -stop-, if it does, then love wouldn't really be great at all...what they had was pathetic either way. I think we've had a fight about this before, so I'm just going to take your opinion and say that I disagree. Aimforthehead Posted at 4:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?   They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either.    Idk if I'd call that love then. Pay attenton to the first sentence. "They stopped loving each other." I meant I wouldn't call what they had before that love. Love doesn't just -stop-, if it does, then love wouldn't really be great at all...what they had was pathetic either way. Gaelle Posted at 2:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?    They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either. Idk if I'd call that love then. Pay attenton to the first sentence. "They stopped loving each other." Aimforthehead Posted at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"? They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either. Idk if I'd call that love then. Gaelle Posted at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"? They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either. Mimic Posted at 1:58 pm on July 3, 2009 It just happens that way sometimes, you can't be together, but being apart causes you to hate them because you don't always want to lose what you've lost. Aileyy Posted at 1:39 pm on July 3, 2009 Maybe they just werent getting what they needed from each other anymore and they could both be hurt that it didnt work.  It might not just be that they hate each other. xestrangedx Posted at 1:05 pm on July 3, 2009 People change? Aimforthehead Posted at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009 Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"? Mein Alias Posted at 2:40 am on July 3, 2009 It's because they secretly want to continue having sex, but neither of them have the balls to apologize so they funnel their angst into a form of aggression which will continue to expand exponentially as their lust for one another will continue to become increasingly frustrated, which will add more to the rage. You should pull one of those cartoon-esque stunts by sending letters out to both of them with each other's names, asking them out for a date at a fancy place you paid a reservation for. Sector Corrupt Posted at 2:39 am on July 3, 2009 ... Yeah, considering it sounds like they broke it off on good terms... Normally the hatred it reserved for messy breakups. Leannbby Posted at 2:38 am on July 3, 2009 i get it...its just hard to explain they are talking like that because their probably full of insecure regret and are at their lowest points. danzelx Posted at 2:38 am on July 3, 2009 Because they are hurting. NEGATIVE0 Posted at 2:38 am on July 3, 2009 just how some relationships end, really. it wasn't meant to be. Most recent 15 of 15 previous replies displayed.