Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Major Panic Mode Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]error[/m] at 9:15 am on July 6, 2009[quote]just talk to her and tell her your working on things and your fine and you would prefer that she keep it to herself because its not necessary for everyone else to know.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post merryberrycherry Posted at 11:47 am on July 5, 2009 So I just found out that my ex best friend told her mum everything about my anorexic and bulimic tendancies, my self harming and suicidal ideas. Her mum knows everything about me! EVERYTHING and she has known for over 4 months, I had no idea until friday night when my friend R confided with me. He told me that my ex friend's mother told everyone at their work and that is how R knows..he has known for over 4months so if he's known for that long..how long has my ex friends mum known!? I don't know what to do but everytime I visit R at work she is always tells me how thin I am and I am too thin bla bla bla..it all makes sense now! Do I talk to her and try to convince her I am okay? I need to stop her from telling anyone else and this is the only way I can think of. HELP!

Replies twisted angel Posted at 4:44 pm on July 9, 2009 Well if you have all that you really need help, its not healthy or good for you. error Posted at 9:15 am on July 6, 2009 just talk to her and tell her your working on things and your fine and you would prefer that she keep it to herself because its not necessary for everyone else to know. G Sus Posted at 11:54 am on July 5, 2009 Just tell her that you're in a fragile position atm and if lots of people know it could set you off, you're working on it and that she just needs to forget about it and leave it to you to sort. porteous89 Posted at 11:50 am on July 5, 2009 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations RIMHfire Posted at 11:50 am on July 5, 2009 yeah ryt. Light Assassin Posted at 11:48 am on July 5, 2009 so what if she knows you need to get rid of it and she's not gonna tell anyone and if she does she's a bitch. but if you dont even see her anymore it shouldn't matter to you All 6 previous replies displayed.