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Topic Skinny people are SO much better than fat people.
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Eris Posted at 10:15 am on July 4, 2009
Prepared to catch hell for this post.

I've notices a couple posts like this lately. And I've also got several comments from people (who I honestly cant for the life of me figure out why they decided to just hate me) about how incredibly not skinny I am.

First of all, let's make it clear that being fat wasn't exactly my choice. I am active and don't eat 9000 pounds of fast food a day. You guys act like all bigger girls are the same. I got fat when my disease kicked in.

AND guess what... bigger girls can be pretty too. It's my goal to be a pinup girl some day. Granted I will prolly lose some weight so that when my water weight catches up I dont feel horrible...  But I am fine posing that was the way I look now. I'd prefer posing that was with meat instead of showing bones, thanks.


Just saying you people aren't better because you're skinny. (Most specifically to  the person who posted the skinny people are better than fat people because they are lazy post last week)

And I dont have to drop 100 pounds to be pretty. So get over it.

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melodramatic Posted at 2:51 pm on July 6, 2009
Quote: from gore at 11:00 am on July 4, 2009

skinny is awesome, anything over 110 is fat

Skinny is awesome, I agree. But I just prefer that look. It's my preference, I have to admit.
melodramatic Posted at 2:49 pm on July 6, 2009
I believe that people who are 'fat' because of inactivity and laziness shouldn't be called beautiful people, because they chose to be that way. People like you, Who don't even look fat and have a disorder such as that, Shouldn't be. Curvy women are beautiful, as well as skinny women, It just depends on how you hold yourself and present yourself as beautiful. And you don't have to get in peoples' faces telling them that you are beautiful either. It will just radiate from you if you believe. I know a girl who is curvy and gorgeous, and some people called her big in the past... But she COMPLETELY ignored them and went into dancing and now she's an instructor.. She's a beautiful girl, But yeah..

On the opposite end, Just because someone is skinny doesn't mean you should blame them for it. We all have our bodies that were given to us and cannot help it. And it's all a matter of perspective as well. I am just addressing insecure, 'bigger' women who proclaim: "Curvy women are real women" or referring to fucking a bag of bones or something.. Skinny women are real women. Your body does not define you.  

newmie66 Posted at 11:29 am on July 5, 2009
This is honestly a great post; good for you for writing it. When I was in middle school, I was a good thirty pounds overweight and despite what I did to try and lose it, I just couldn't. It turned out that my thyroid gland was not functioning properly. My doctor prescribed me some medication, and I was able to attain a healthy weight. My point is that you're absolutely right. When people walk down the street and make judgements about people based on their weight, it's ridiculous. Just because someone is a size 12 instead of a size 2 doesn't make them a bad person. Plus, not every overweight person is your typical couch potato or lazy bum. Like you said, it could be because of illness, surgery, stress, anything! Keep your head up and don't let people tell you that you aren't beautiful. They don't know what they're talking about and chances are they have a problem with their own identity if they can't accept yours.
Day Old Blues Posted at 11:22 am on July 5, 2009
what disease causes you to be fat then
ps put ur boobs away love
Scottish Gal Posted at 6:38 am on July 5, 2009
Quote: from Violently Happy at 6:31 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Eris at 1:25 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Violently Happy at 10:23 am on July 4, 2009

Your face isn't pretty.
 

 excuse me, BITCH  

 But atleast I have to balls to post pictures of my face.

 
 AND I've been told otherwise dearest.

 


I don't need balls or pics to know I'm better looking than you.
You could become a model all you want but with that face you're not gonna get far.

I agree with Violently Happy. You don't look like you can carry your weight at all and your face ain't pretty. You won't ever be a pin up model.
I agree that your weight doesn't necessarily make you attractive or not but it does play a big part in it.

BlazingStar Posted at 4:08 pm on July 4, 2009
Hm...I actually lost forty pounds and dropped to 135 lbs. I'm 5'6". The thing was that losing weight sort of became my obsession, and that's what I was doing. I was losing weight- just that. I started lifting weights and things, and now the scale says I'm 150 lbs, but here's the thing. I look better with the extra twenty pounds of muscle. I don't think the goal should be to be skinny. It should be to be healthy.

There's difference between being skinny to where someone can count your ribs and being skinny with some muscle. Although, on a survey, and interesting note is that most people said an ideal woman would be 5'7" and weigh 100 lbs. That is very underweight, and some models that weighed that actually died of heart attacks from inadequete nutrition. The truth is there is no perfect woman. Skinny, fat, it doesn't really matter. What matters is how healthy you are and how you, yourself, think of yourself.

Just Waiting Here Posted at 2:58 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from gore at 11:00 am on July 4, 2009

skinny is awesome, anything over 110 is fat

If you're over like 5'7", then many people over the weight of 110 would be considered underweight, which can be just as dangerous to your health.

Also, weight lifters and the like weigh much more, and are not fat.

haniwani Posted at 2:46 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from gore at 11:00 am on July 4, 2009

skinny is awesome, anything over 110 is fat

Yes, because we all want to look like fifteen year old boys. On your own there, I think.

To OP, I don't think you look unhealthy at all. Sure, you're bigger than some girls but I completely agree with everything you said. You look good in your body, I think. Fair enough if you want to lose a bit and tone up, but doesn't everyone? There's always someone out there skinnier than you.

xchococatx Posted at 2:37 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from Violently Happy at 3:42 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from DangerouslyDisturbed at 1:34 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Violently Happy at 10:31 am on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Eris at 1:25 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Violently Happy at 10:23 am on July 4, 2009

Your face isn't pretty.
 

  excuse me, BITCH  

  But atleast I have to balls to post pictures of my face.

 
  AND I've been told otherwise dearest.

 


I don't need balls or pics to know I'm better looking than you.
  You could become a model all you want but with that face you're not gonna get far.

 

 Wow... People as mean/arrogant/narcissistic as this actually do exist


Amazing isn't it?


ill admit that conversation got me chuckling. Violently Happy, u are a hilarious prick.

Violently Happy Posted at 12:42 pm on July 4, 2009
Quote: from DangerouslyDisturbed at 1:34 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Violently Happy at 10:31 am on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Eris at 1:25 pm on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Violently Happy at 10:23 am on July 4, 2009

Your face isn't pretty.
 

  excuse me, BITCH  

  But atleast I have to balls to post pictures of my face.    

     
  AND I've been told otherwise  dearest.    

 


I don't need balls or pics to know I'm better looking than you.  
 You could become a model all you want but with that face you're not gonna get far.

Wow... People as mean/arrogant/narcissistic as this actually do exist


Amazing isn't it?
gore Posted at 11:00 am on July 4, 2009
skinny is awesome, anything over 110 is fat
Stars Fall For Us Posted at 10:48 am on July 4, 2009
I agree with what you said completely but still remember some of the smaller people do have problems they can't help too

x

cheeesy Posted at 10:38 am on July 4, 2009
I totally agree with your post.
Eris Posted at 10:38 am on July 4, 2009
Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 10:37 am on July 4, 2009

Quote: from Zoreo at 10:31 am on July 4, 2009

Have you looked at what fat is?  when they cut fat girls open and take out the fat its pretty gross stuff like cancer. hiding it with skin dont work.

Then I take it you don't like girls with breasts?



lol thats amazingly correct and I officially love you.

Just Waiting Here Posted at 10:37 am on July 4, 2009
Quote: from Zoreo at 10:31 am on July 4, 2009

Have you looked at what fat is? when they cut fat girls open and take out the fat its pretty gross stuff like cancer. hiding it with skin dont work.

Then I take it you don't like girls with breasts?

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