I have been having these dreams about a past relationship or the person I was talking to and I need help interpreting what they mean I will be giving you the backstory to this relationship and/or situation. It all happened last year I was talking to a guy stationed in Alaska for military's needs and we hit it off right away we will talk to each other every single day ,FaceTime each other every chance we got , And marriage was even brought up by him. Eventually he started distancing himself from me and not talking to me as much as he was and come to find out he was told that he was being deployed to Iraq he told me over the phone that's how I figured it out. So after you told me what was going on he didn't message me as much and eventually told me that he didn't have time for relationship and that you need to get his mind together before deployment and that he honestly just couldn't do it he said that we could be friends but nothing more. Therefore me being the friend that I am I would message him saying how he was holding up and if he was OK and that I was there for him that I wasn't going anywhere and he does eventually stop talking to me altogether.I took it hard and started having dreams about him and I meeting Face to face and having a conversation about what happened and he eventually got down on one knee and proposed. When I would wake up the dream felt so real like I can actually feel his touch and then when I woke up I'll be in tears sad I know. Eventually I stop having those dreams and forgot about the whole situation. It is now 2015 in on June 26th I received a message from him on Facebook saying "I apologize if I ever made you feel unwanted, unloved, mad and or confused I was confused myself and I'm trying to make things right with those whom I've hurt and my moment of confusion i'm sorry, And you hold a dear place in my heart I hope you know that."I forgive him and told him that I understand and that he will forever have a place in my heart and always has had .Well I ended up having a dream about him and I ,and it was sort of like the dreams before but this time it was a little bit different. He and I are with each other cuddling and sharing our fears and our hopes for the future reminiscing about the past. Now I wasn't thinking about him before he messaged me or after so I'm confused as to why I am having these dreams and I don't know the meaning to them so can you help?
Peace be on you. Being far from home. It takes lot of toll. One would pray to God for guidance.
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