Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic When a guy can't cum Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Clara Bell[/m] at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009[quote]Sometimes it just happens. If it's a frequent problem, try exploring other ways to stimulate him.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post awexome Posted at 1:16 am on July 10, 2009 Why is that? He said he jerked off a few times today, but this isn't the first time it's happened lately. Well, I'll admit..the other times he couldn't finish, we were either drunk or high. I know he's not cheating, please don't say something like that. Believe me, it is obvious. We've been dating a few years too, and he's a very kind-hearted & good boyfriend. I'm a good looking girl too. Not totally skinny...but not fat. And I actually DO my part in making sex enjoyable. I don't just lay there. But idk. When he can't finish, I feel like it's because I don't turn him on. I asked him that and he said that's definitely not the reason. I guess it could be anything. Most likely it's the fapping, right?

Replies i effing rock Posted at 2:23 pm on July 10, 2009 Sometimes I cant cum. I can orgasm (the same sensation as cumming, just with out sperm coming out) but not cum.  Sometimes it feels good but nothing comes out.   renegade riot Posted at 1:20 am on July 10, 2009 he has problems Anonymous Posted at 1:20 am on July 10, 2009 To be honest, I have this exact same problem. I have no clue what mental block I have against finishing. It means I can keep going for a while, but it's certainly less fun, and I kind of worry it won't go away... I technically have a fetish, so I sometimes think t hat might be part of the issue... and if your boyfriend is like me and has an equally strange one he might not be comfortable bringing it up. Were X Posted at 1:19 am on July 10, 2009 probably just takes a long time or as james brauman said rancid freakin rawk Posted at 1:19 am on July 10, 2009 must be the fappin' check his junk out next time, see if it looks exercised beforehand awexome Posted at 1:19 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 what if he just takes a while? takes me like 3 hours, 2 on a good day We've been having sex for 2 years, usually it's 5 minutes to a half hour. Clara Bell Posted at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009 Sometimes it just happens. If it's a frequent problem, try exploring other ways to stimulate him. laylow Posted at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from sub800 at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 he might be fappin prior to the sexin so he can last tht works every time too! JamesBrauman Posted at 1:18 am on July 10, 2009 Yes most likely. But I mean I have never come from sex or foreplay, I need to do it myself to be honest. sub800 Posted at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 he might be fappin prior to the sexin so he can last Mods1Blow2Me3Daily Posted at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 what if he just takes a while? takes me like 3 hours, 2 on a good day All 11 previous replies displayed.