Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Sex without a condom Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 11:15 am on July 21, 2008[quote]Quote: from [m]rawrr[/m] at 2:11 pm on July 21, 2008[quote]if you dont want to, then dont do it. simple as that.[/quote] Obviously, if I'm planning on possibly doing it, I want to. But things that you want aren't always the best things for you.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 11:09 am on July 21, 2008 So I'm on the pill, but I've always made my boyfriend wear a condom when we have sex anyway because I don't trust the pill at all... it just makes me nervous because getting pregnant would pretty much ruin my whole life right now... Anyway, my boyfriend strongly dislikes condoms, because he didn't with his last girlfriend because she was on the shot and I guess wasn't as paranoid as me, and he says he can't feel as much with one on. Now, I know he can still feel a lot blah blah but I'd like to try having sex without one if it really is safe. I got a free sample of this spermicidal film stuff, and I'm thinking if I'm on the pill and use that and make him pull out I'll be safe? What are your thoughts??  Am I too paranoid? A FEW EDITS: 1. LAY OFF MY BOYFRIEND, PEOPLE! As I've already said, he has never and would never dream of asking me to not use a condom. He's the sweetest guy in the world. I'M the one bringing it up, because he is the sweetest guy in the world and as such deserves perfect sex 2. Obviously I am not being pressured in any way. To those of you telling me no to if I don't want to, you obviously don't understand what I'm asking. I'm asking if what I WANT to do is safe! 3. Neither of us has any STDs. So that doesn't need to come into play at all.

Replies TigressaLynnMae Posted at 5:40 pm on July 21, 2008 Branflakes: It's not paranoia. It's plausible precaution. freddie Posted at 3:12 pm on July 21, 2008 well from a guys point of veiw i see where you are getting at that you wanna stay safe and hey i dont blame you but if you trust him enough then go for it i mean i hve had sex without a condom befor and all i really did was just pull out b4 i was about 2 cuum and then we were all good so if you feel safe and you trust him go for it=]=] branflakes Posted at 2:47 pm on July 21, 2008 you're way too paranoid do you realize that perfect, directed use of the pill results in pregnancy 0.3% of the time over the course of a YEAR. that means that if a THOUSAND people take the pill over a year and have sex, there are going to be 3 pregnancies. now, i know you may be saying "but i could be one of those three!" yeah, you could but no matter what you do there's always gonna be that "what if," no matter how small. personally, i think 3 out of 1,000 is a pretty fucking small possibility. there's reason and then there's paranoia and i think what you're displaying is paranoia. do you want to live your life in fear that you'll have the worst come to you or do you want to stick to your pretty good chances and enjoy yourself more? it's up to you. sile Posted at 11:28 am on July 21, 2008 If you don't want to have sex without a condom then don't your boyfriend is a dick if he complains about it because it's you that would end of worried about getting pregnant all the time just so he can feel a bit more. When im on the pill i still wont have sex without a condom, firstly because im uber paranoid about getting pregnant and want to be completely safe like you are, lots of thing can interfere with the pill, like other medications, or just forgetting to take it one day. And besides that the pill doesn't protect against S.T.I.'s and while im sure you completely trust your boyfriend so do the majority of people who end up getting infections. Basically in my view better safe than sorry and if a guy has a problem with that he can GTFO jayney16 Posted at 11:27 am on July 21, 2008 sex without a condom feels a lot better but there is a higher chance of getting pregnant. but being on the pill helps hazeleyedangel Posted at 11:26 am on July 21, 2008 The pill is 99% effective at preventing pregnancy if it is used 100% correctly. Spermicide gel is 71% effective if used alone. Condoms are 97% effective when used alone. Combining a pill and a condom ups the prevention to 99.7% effectiveness when both are used absolutely correctly. Just some facts to consider. lonewolf03 Posted at 11:22 am on July 21, 2008 I'm on the pill, and my boyfriend always pulls out. It works for us. Sex without condoms does feel much nicer, but it's up to you, you're the one who's body could be affected most. John87 Posted at 11:22 am on July 21, 2008 Sex is way better without condom. It gives much better sensation to both partners. However, if you dont want to dont do it! redsbaseball Posted at 11:21 am on July 21, 2008 wut? ohemgeeitsme424 Posted at 11:20 am on July 21, 2008 the point of the pill is to prevent you getting pregnant... the point of condoms is to do that... but also to prevent STD's. think about it. wmudude Posted at 11:19 am on July 21, 2008 Quote: from rawrr at 3:11 am on July 22, 2008 if you dont want to, then dont do it. simple as that. Exactly. If you want him to wear a condom and he doesn't, then don't have sex with him. There's more at risk than just pregnancy, especially since he's had other sexual partners. Rebecca1422 Posted at 11:16 am on July 21, 2008 the pill is safer than condoms as long as its taken correctly x tennisplayerV2 Posted at 11:16 am on July 21, 2008 i'm with rawrr swtpie Posted at 11:15 am on July 21, 2008 You can never be to paranoid. As a couple, you need to come to a decision. If he doesn't like wearing a condom, then the spermicial film is a good way to go. Either way, no matter what you do, there will always be a chance of pregnancy. With my boyfriend, I actually asked if we could stop using a condom cause it hurt me. We now go unprotective, without bc or anything. But we'd be happy with a baby. Anonymous Posted at 11:15 am on July 21, 2008 Quote: from rawrr at 2:11 pm on July 21, 2008 if you dont want to, then dont do it. simple as that. Obviously, if I'm planning on possibly doing it, I want to. But things that you want aren't always the best things for you. Most recent 15 of 29 previous replies displayed.