Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Body image issues, sad! :( Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 4:20 pm on July 22, 2008[quote]I just feel awful about my body. I look at girls on TV, movies, magazines, Playboy, the Internet... go-go dancers at clubs, strippers, or even girls in the street and I just can't compete. It's so obvious that models and actresses and playmates and strippers have soooo much better bodies, then how am I supposed to feel better? Guys drool and drool over them, saying they're so hot and such, even guys in relationships (when not around their gfs) say just how fucking hot some chick is, how perfect her huge tits are, how they'd like to fuck them... some even say how they wish their gfs looked like that. Some don't and they're not jerks, but still claim that some TV chick is hotter than their girl. What can I do to ignore all this shit? How can I love this average, hairy, chubby, small breasted, cellulite ridden body of mine? I feel downright gross!  :sad: [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 4:20 pm on July 22, 2008 I just feel awful about my body. I look at girls on TV, movies, magazines, Playboy, the Internet... go-go dancers at clubs, strippers, or even girls in the street and I just can't compete. It's so obvious that models and actresses and playmates and strippers have soooo much better bodies, then how am I supposed to feel better? Guys drool and drool over them, saying they're so hot and such, even guys in relationships (when not around their gfs) say just how fucking hot some chick is, how perfect her huge tits are, how they'd like to fuck them... some even say how they wish their gfs looked like that. Some don't and they're not jerks, but still claim that some TV chick is hotter than their girl. What can I do to ignore all this shit? How can I love this average, hairy, chubby, small breasted, cellulite ridden body of mine? I feel downright gross!

Replies lilac Posted at 8:57 pm on Aug. 7, 2008 I can relate to you there. I'm not chubby, but wish I was. I have small breasts too, I'm an A cup, I told my b/f I was a B though. He tells me he likes my body the way it is, says he likes me for who I am, but there were one or two times when he also told me he's gonna fatten me up in other words, he's saying I'm too skinny. Another time, he told me I'm so tiny and that I'm so skinny, I can fit through anywhere. Infact, I get that alot from people. The I'm so tiny thing. I went shopping two days ago to get some tops and I take small, sometimes extra small even. The tops I wanted were small and I tried them on. There hanging off me a tad because I guess I need an extra small. Anyway, I wasn't happy after a while being at the mall becuse of that. I started telling myself that I'm so small I can't fit into anything. I guess the only way to get bigger is to get pregnant for me. Since eating isn't working. I just wanted to relate. And trust me, you'd be surprise to know how many guys love women with weight on. When your skinny, it's not always good. Not everyone looks good being skinny. I get told I'm so small. I'm 23 by the way. So I feel you pain too. Blue Baby Posted at 4:44 am on July 25, 2008 Make it up with a great personality. Being beautiful inside is more important than being beautiful just outside. abbeyqtpi Posted at 9:09 pm on July 23, 2008 i think the only hott girl is one with confidence. i feel the same way. but those girls are nothing. :D Aratal Posted at 6:37 pm on July 22, 2008 I know what you mean. But you know what? There is a big difference between women who are visually appealing and women who are real and have substance to them and are worthy of a relationship. I wouldn't call most of those types of women you listed as relationship-worthy. hateitandloveit Posted at 5:05 pm on July 22, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 7:25 pm on July 22, 2008 Quote: from hateitandloveit at 4:22 pm on July 22, 2008 Guys might say that, but so? who cares? when we say that we are just commenting on their appearance, nothing else. if you gave me some hot tv girl and a less pretty girl that I knew and I knew had a good personality and stuff, obviously I'm goign to pick the latter.  Don't worry about it, just be  healthy and you'll be fine. Yeah, sure, you can love a normal looking girl... but when it comes down to having sex obviously attraction plays a huge part and it kinda sucks to know that guys think some other chick is hotter and want to fuck them. Fuck that. Not of importance. Sex is sex, no matter how hot the person is. mars1123 Posted at 4:29 pm on July 22, 2008 u have to be happy with ur body.... i mean im 5'3, 170 lbs, and im perfectly fine with my body... i love myself for every curve i am... im not perfect, no but id rather feel perfect then have to live with not feeling perfect... no one is perfect and ur just like everyone else, in ur own unique way.......... pinch Posted at 4:27 pm on July 22, 2008 I know how you feel, but when you think hard about it, do you want to be referred to as "cute" or "hot"? There's some saying that a guy who loves you for you will think you're cute, and any loser can call you hot. I've got a good body I think, I'm slim and quite petite in height but I'm no model whatsoever. It's confidence that will win you love. good luck xx xkristinaax Posted at 4:26 pm on July 22, 2008 Girls with hot bodies and huge breasts aren't truly beautiful. Yeah, they may look bangable to some guys, but they aren't BEAUTIFUL. Remember, almost everything you see in magazines or pictures, it's all touched up. They aren't THAT flawless. They just go and edit every pimple, every wrinkle, every tiny flaw in sight. You have to learn to accept yourself the way you are. You ARE beautiful, honest. You just need to look deep down and realize that. Anonymous Posted at 4:25 pm on July 22, 2008 Quote: from hateitandloveit at 4:22 pm on July 22, 2008 Guys might say that, but so? who cares? when we say that we are just commenting on their appearance, nothing else. if you gave me some hot tv girl and a less pretty girl that I knew and I knew had a good personality and stuff, obviously I'm goign to pick the latter.   Don't worry about it, just be healthy and you'll be fine. Yeah, sure, you can love a normal looking girl... but when it comes down to having sex obviously attraction plays a huge part and it kinda sucks to know that guys think some other chick is hotter and want to fuck them. Aixi Posted at 4:24 pm on July 22, 2008 You can always find someone, always. Don't shoot high though.  Unless of course you want to work extra hard and lose weight.. and shave. playboyfreak456 Posted at 4:24 pm on July 22, 2008 I use to feel that way too. And honestly, it gets a lot better once you get older. You start to realize all the beauty you really do have instead of focusing on all the flaws. And the truth is, yeah a lot of guys do think the girls in playboy are hot, but they will also say they would never date them. All they want them for is sex because they already know they will give it up easily. Paisapunkprincess Posted at 4:24 pm on July 22, 2008 well, you just have to see that we are all diferent people, accept yourself for who you are, because in the end someone is gonna love you for you. foxypunk Posted at 4:23 pm on July 22, 2008 eh I know the feeling I hate my body and hate pretty girls just cause I'm so jelose of them, though my boyfriend tells me all the time about the girls he thinks are hot or what parts are, I dunno how to ignor that stuff I'm in the same kinda boat katzkitten Posted at 4:23 pm on July 22, 2008 hey were normal people, we cant afford gym trainers and £100 beauty treatments like them :) dont worry, least your not plastic ayee musicfan3 Posted at 4:22 pm on July 22, 2008 You do know all those girls had work done? Be happy your natural. Most recent 15 of 20 previous replies displayed.