Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic When ever my friends don't call Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]IGotAddicted[/m] at 8:35 pm on July 10, 2009[quote]Quote: from [m]La Roux[/m] at 4:33 am on July 11, 2009[quote]Paranoid much[/quote] this this this[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:33 pm on July 10, 2009 I start second guessing myself.  I think that they don't want to be around me.  If I call them they are willing to hang out; it is not that they are making excuses. I just don't like having to call them every time I want to see them.  If I don't call them they won't ever call me.  I tried this and I did not see anyone for two weeks.  When I finally called them they asked why we had not hung out for weeks.  I know what you are going to say, " just make new friends"  It took me years to make these friends.  They are my favorite people to be around.  Most people that I meet bug the hell out of me.  But these people do not.  I just don't want to sit at home on the weekend again.

Replies MoonLoveBaby Posted at 12:56 am on July 11, 2009 Heh, good one. MoonLoveBaby Posted at 12:56 am on July 11, 2009 Regardless of them being your most favourite people to be around, maybe they just dont take the initiative to do as listed. My absolute best friend, never calls me or texts me haha. I always have to start the conversation, or make the first move so to speak, when it comes to plans and such. I highly doubt that it's because they arent interested in hanging around with you. I believe its more like my friend, where they'd rather just have someone else initiate the activities so they dont have to run the risk of having their plans shot down. I'm sure you're an awesome person to hang around with! Cheer up! Being the one to make first contact isnt always a bad thing! Hell, it makes me think that you're the one with all the brilliant ideas and activities planned, and you just have to share! :D Gruadia Posted at 8:37 pm on July 10, 2009 second one Gruadia Posted at 8:37 pm on July 10, 2009 I have the same problem :( OhSoDisastrous Posted at 8:36 pm on July 10, 2009 Don't know who she hangs out with either.... dammit OhSoDisastrous Posted at 8:36 pm on July 10, 2009 Just tell them that you think they should put more effort into your relationship.. aka call you once in a while. They should understand. All 6 previous replies displayed.