Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic i really need help Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]xxfleurxx[/m] at 4:12 am on July 10, 2009[quote]if youre afraid of hurting her then why would you tell her you slipped? its okay to stuff up every once and a while, but if youre that serious about it just dont tell her [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post twisted angel Posted at 2:00 am on July 10, 2009 I have no idea what i can do anymore, It feels like everyone is telling me to do one thing but then they go and do annother, like they tell me to do this and then i will fail and they will say, oh you failed now i guess i am allowed to. Well just becuase i failed doesnt mean that they have the excuse to go and do the same thing. Okay maybe i should explain my best friend and i made a promise that we would both eat good but i broke it i couldnt help it i purged like 3 or 4 times and i couldnt help it and now she thinks that just becuase i failed at getting better she is allowed to.. i dont want her to hurt herself what can i do? to make her see that thisis not the way to go, she is on such a good roll at becoming better and if its me that makes her well like not get better becuase i bloody stuffed up i will never forgive myself! i cant let her kil herself she is already to skinny! Sorry i just really had to vent all of that...i am so worried she like one of my bestest friends in the world and she is like my sister and i cant let her do this to herseld...help please

Replies knoxville101 Posted at 9:18 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from twisted angel at 11:28 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from notebook101 at 11:33 am on July 10, 2009 Well you need to explain to her that just because you messed up, doesn't mean she has to. You don't share a body. Perhaps you two should try starting over. In order for her to keep on her track, you have to do your very best as well. There is no one forcing you to purge, you just have to convince yourself it's not worth it, and how much you would hurt your friend as well. Keep your eye on the goal. Promises are sacred, and it messes things up when you break them.    And as for the whole "People are telling me to do one thing and then they go and do another", you don't always have to listen to people. Only you can make decisions for yourself. You're responsible for your own actions. If they have a problem with it or do the opposite of what they told you, then that's them. So try not to let it bother you so much.    Hope everything works out for you and your friend. Good luck. And I'm here if you need someone to talk to when you feel the need to purge or just need someone to talk to. Thanksyou :) you should be a SL your heaps good :) Aw, thanks. I think I will apply. knoxville101 Posted at 9:18 pm on July 10, 2009 Yay for you. Go hang it on the fridge. twisted angel Posted at 8:28 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from notebook101 at 11:33 am on July 10, 2009 Well you need to explain to her that just because you messed up, doesn't mean she has to. You don't share a body. Perhaps you two should try starting over. In order for her to keep on her track, you have to do your very best as well. There is no one forcing you to purge, you just have to convince yourself it's not worth it, and how much you would hurt your friend as well. Keep your eye on the goal. Promises are sacred, and it messes things up when you break them. And as for the whole "People are telling me to do one thing and then they go and do another", you don't always have to listen to people. Only you can make decisions for yourself. You're responsible for your own actions. If they have a problem with it or do the opposite of what they told you, then that's them. So try not to let it bother you so much. Hope everything works out for you and your friend. Good luck. And I'm here if you need someone to talk to when you feel the need to purge or just need someone to talk to. Thanksyou :) you should be a SL your heaps good :) twisted angel Posted at 8:28 pm on July 10, 2009 Is 205 days enough time to accomplish something with somebody? knoxville101 Posted at 11:33 am on July 10, 2009 Well you need to explain to her that just because you messed up, doesn't mean she has to. You don't share a body. Perhaps you two should try starting over. In order for her to keep on her track, you have to do your very best as well. There is no one forcing you to purge, you just have to convince yourself it's not worth it, and how much you would hurt your friend as well. Keep your eye on the goal. Promises are sacred, and it messes things up when you break them. And as for the whole "People are telling me to do one thing and then they go and do another", you don't always have to listen to people. Only you can make decisions for yourself. You're responsible for your own actions. If they have a problem with it or do the opposite of what they told you, then that's them. So try not to let it bother you so much. Hope everything works out for you and your friend. Good luck. And I'm here if you need someone to talk to when you feel the need to purge or just need someone to talk to. knoxville101 Posted at 11:33 am on July 10, 2009 ITS LIKE AN INSECT INVASION! All 6 previous replies displayed.