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Quote: from puppie11 at 4:59 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Let It Snow at 1:47 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from snowcone200 at 4:44 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Is this your mom or gf? I been that way feeling like they didnt care. My mom. But she said he was gone for good. He ruined my life.. Yet she doesn't care. who is ruining your life? This guy that basically invaded our lives.. As I call him, my mom's stalker.
Quote: from Let It Snow at 1:47 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from snowcone200 at 4:44 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Is this your mom or gf? I been that way feeling like they didnt care. My mom. But she said he was gone for good. He ruined my life.. Yet she doesn't care. who is ruining your life?
Quote: from snowcone200 at 4:44 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Is this your mom or gf? I been that way feeling like they didnt care. My mom. But she said he was gone for good. He ruined my life.. Yet she doesn't care.
Is this your mom or gf? I been that way feeling like they didnt care.
who is ruining your life?
This guy that basically invaded our lives.. As I call him, my mom's stalker.
your dad? sorry im confused. message me if u wanna talk :)
I thought you said you don't get on with your friends anyway?(or am i thinking of another topic i read? (sorry if i am))
And no one does well when they first go to a new home? You think they go to a new home and everyones all friendly chatting like they've known enough other for years? Hell no.
But staying with your brother sounds a good idea.
Quote: from Let It Snow at 11:47 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Uhhello at 1:18 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Let It Snow at 5:07 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from S0LITUDE at 8:25 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Let It Snow at 2:11 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 This guy that basically invaded our lives.. As I call him, my mom's stalker.The thing is that you shouldn't let anyone invade your life because after all it is your life and no one else's. That is the one thing we have and to have it "invaded" by someone else would be a waste. Is he like your step-father? What exactly do you hate about him? Don't be sad because your mom has got a boyfriend or married someone else. Sometimes you have to learn to look from the other person's perspective. Think about how your mom would feel if she didn't have anyone she could love and that could love her. Think about her too not just about yourself. Everyone needs some love and after all it is her life as well. You see, you can't go around telling your mom what to do with her life and what to not do, especially if it involves love. Sometimes we don't understand things like this until years later when we become a bit more dependent. It should not bother you that she likes someone. Everyone needs a second chance. Perhaps this makes her happy. You should tell her, that just like she has her life, you also have yours and if you don't want to share your life with "that man" then you should not have to, but you can't stop your mom from seeing him. I know it's hard! But you need to learn to find your own happiness. Try meeting other people and starting to have a more social life with others beside your family. Try to find love in some others if this is not working for you. I know that it is essential for us to have our parents' affection and I'm sure you have hers although you might not accept it. You might be depressed but you just have to learn to get used to that fact that your mom also needs someone else. Do it for her. Perhaps you can do nothing about it, but that does not mean you have to be sad. You also mention that you want to leave. You can use this as a way to motivate you. If you really want to leave that place then you must start now and try to be independent. School is essential if you hope to achieve this, but please don't feel miserable. I tell you, you just have to get used to it. Try to enjoy it. Eventually it will get better after you start understanding that it isn't that bad. This man is nothing. He's not a step-dad or boyfriend. He is as I put it, a stalker. My mother started out to be friends with him. Only reasons? For sex and drugs. This man has no life, he has no job. He moved into our home without being asked to. Then, he refused to leave. He finally did. He would call, literally, 50+ times a day. My mom didn't want to answer. My mom didn't like him besides those two things. He broke into our house while my mother was here. He threatened her. Cops were called, he was forced to leave. Not to mention he's stolen $500 worth of her jewelry. What'd she do? She didn't press charges, she didn't do a damn thing. He still threatens her. She's a fucking lost cause. She won't listen to anyone. Not even to her own mother who is dying. Or her brother or sister, not even me, my sister, or my brother. Not to mention there's a protection order out on me and my sister (where my parents separated and both were tested positive for drugs). So if she gets caught with a positive drug test, we are both gone. And honestly, she wouldn't give a shit. Thus is why I should most likely be moving in my brother in a few months. Well 'You'll both be gone'...it'll probably be the best thing for both of you. Drug addicts never realise anything until its too late..occasional they do and you leaving could be a wakeup call to your mum not to take u for granted. Honestly, no it wouldn't. It's not like I'd be near here, and me and my sister would most likely be separated. Well you can always speak to someone about trying to have you not separated...and besides if its that bad, wouldnt it be nice to be away from everyone? Start living a peaceful life,
Quote: from Uhhello at 1:18 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from Let It Snow at 5:07 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from S0LITUDE at 8:25 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Let It Snow at 2:11 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 This guy that basically invaded our lives.. As I call him, my mom's stalker.The thing is that you shouldn't let anyone invade your life because after all it is your life and no one else's. That is the one thing we have and to have it "invaded" by someone else would be a waste. Is he like your step-father? What exactly do you hate about him? Don't be sad because your mom has got a boyfriend or married someone else. Sometimes you have to learn to look from the other person's perspective. Think about how your mom would feel if she didn't have anyone she could love and that could love her. Think about her too not just about yourself. Everyone needs some love and after all it is her life as well. You see, you can't go around telling your mom what to do with her life and what to not do, especially if it involves love. Sometimes we don't understand things like this until years later when we become a bit more dependent. It should not bother you that she likes someone. Everyone needs a second chance. Perhaps this makes her happy. You should tell her, that just like she has her life, you also have yours and if you don't want to share your life with "that man" then you should not have to, but you can't stop your mom from seeing him. I know it's hard! But you need to learn to find your own happiness. Try meeting other people and starting to have a more social life with others beside your family. Try to find love in some others if this is not working for you. I know that it is essential for us to have our parents' affection and I'm sure you have hers although you might not accept it. You might be depressed but you just have to learn to get used to that fact that your mom also needs someone else. Do it for her. Perhaps you can do nothing about it, but that does not mean you have to be sad. You also mention that you want to leave. You can use this as a way to motivate you. If you really want to leave that place then you must start now and try to be independent. School is essential if you hope to achieve this, but please don't feel miserable. I tell you, you just have to get used to it. Try to enjoy it. Eventually it will get better after you start understanding that it isn't that bad. This man is nothing. He's not a step-dad or boyfriend. He is as I put it, a stalker. My mother started out to be friends with him. Only reasons? For sex and drugs. This man has no life, he has no job. He moved into our home without being asked to. Then, he refused to leave. He finally did. He would call, literally, 50+ times a day. My mom didn't want to answer. My mom didn't like him besides those two things. He broke into our house while my mother was here. He threatened her. Cops were called, he was forced to leave. Not to mention he's stolen $500 worth of her jewelry. What'd she do? She didn't press charges, she didn't do a damn thing. He still threatens her. She's a fucking lost cause. She won't listen to anyone. Not even to her own mother who is dying. Or her brother or sister, not even me, my sister, or my brother. Not to mention there's a protection order out on me and my sister (where my parents separated and both were tested positive for drugs). So if she gets caught with a positive drug test, we are both gone. And honestly, she wouldn't give a shit. Thus is why I should most likely be moving in my brother in a few months. Well 'You'll both be gone'...it'll probably be the best thing for both of you. Drug addicts never realise anything until its too late..occasional they do and you leaving could be a wakeup call to your mum not to take u for granted. Honestly, no it wouldn't. It's not like I'd be near here, and me and my sister would most likely be separated.
Quote: from Let It Snow at 5:07 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Quote: from S0LITUDE at 8:25 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Let It Snow at 2:11 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 This guy that basically invaded our lives.. As I call him, my mom's stalker.The thing is that you shouldn't let anyone invade your life because after all it is your life and no one else's. That is the one thing we have and to have it "invaded" by someone else would be a waste. Is he like your step-father? What exactly do you hate about him? Don't be sad because your mom has got a boyfriend or married someone else. Sometimes you have to learn to look from the other person's perspective. Think about how your mom would feel if she didn't have anyone she could love and that could love her. Think about her too not just about yourself. Everyone needs some love and after all it is her life as well. You see, you can't go around telling your mom what to do with her life and what to not do, especially if it involves love. Sometimes we don't understand things like this until years later when we become a bit more dependent. It should not bother you that she likes someone. Everyone needs a second chance. Perhaps this makes her happy. You should tell her, that just like she has her life, you also have yours and if you don't want to share your life with "that man" then you should not have to, but you can't stop your mom from seeing him. I know it's hard! But you need to learn to find your own happiness. Try meeting other people and starting to have a more social life with others beside your family. Try to find love in some others if this is not working for you. I know that it is essential for us to have our parents' affection and I'm sure you have hers although you might not accept it. You might be depressed but you just have to learn to get used to that fact that your mom also needs someone else. Do it for her. Perhaps you can do nothing about it, but that does not mean you have to be sad. You also mention that you want to leave. You can use this as a way to motivate you. If you really want to leave that place then you must start now and try to be independent. School is essential if you hope to achieve this, but please don't feel miserable. I tell you, you just have to get used to it. Try to enjoy it. Eventually it will get better after you start understanding that it isn't that bad. This man is nothing. He's not a step-dad or boyfriend. He is as I put it, a stalker. My mother started out to be friends with him. Only reasons? For sex and drugs. This man has no life, he has no job. He moved into our home without being asked to. Then, he refused to leave. He finally did. He would call, literally, 50+ times a day. My mom didn't want to answer. My mom didn't like him besides those two things. He broke into our house while my mother was here. He threatened her. Cops were called, he was forced to leave. Not to mention he's stolen $500 worth of her jewelry. What'd she do? She didn't press charges, she didn't do a damn thing. He still threatens her. She's a fucking lost cause. She won't listen to anyone. Not even to her own mother who is dying. Or her brother or sister, not even me, my sister, or my brother. Not to mention there's a protection order out on me and my sister (where my parents separated and both were tested positive for drugs). So if she gets caught with a positive drug test, we are both gone. And honestly, she wouldn't give a shit. Thus is why I should most likely be moving in my brother in a few months. Well 'You'll both be gone'...it'll probably be the best thing for both of you. Drug addicts never realise anything until its too late..occasional they do and you leaving could be a wakeup call to your mum not to take u for granted.
Quote: from S0LITUDE at 8:25 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Let It Snow at 2:11 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 This guy that basically invaded our lives.. As I call him, my mom's stalker.The thing is that you shouldn't let anyone invade your life because after all it is your life and no one else's. That is the one thing we have and to have it "invaded" by someone else would be a waste. Is he like your step-father? What exactly do you hate about him? Don't be sad because your mom has got a boyfriend or married someone else. Sometimes you have to learn to look from the other person's perspective. Think about how your mom would feel if she didn't have anyone she could love and that could love her. Think about her too not just about yourself. Everyone needs some love and after all it is her life as well. You see, you can't go around telling your mom what to do with her life and what to not do, especially if it involves love. Sometimes we don't understand things like this until years later when we become a bit more dependent. It should not bother you that she likes someone. Everyone needs a second chance. Perhaps this makes her happy. You should tell her, that just like she has her life, you also have yours and if you don't want to share your life with "that man" then you should not have to, but you can't stop your mom from seeing him. I know it's hard! But you need to learn to find your own happiness. Try meeting other people and starting to have a more social life with others beside your family. Try to find love in some others if this is not working for you. I know that it is essential for us to have our parents' affection and I'm sure you have hers although you might not accept it. You might be depressed but you just have to learn to get used to that fact that your mom also needs someone else. Do it for her. Perhaps you can do nothing about it, but that does not mean you have to be sad. You also mention that you want to leave. You can use this as a way to motivate you. If you really want to leave that place then you must start now and try to be independent. School is essential if you hope to achieve this, but please don't feel miserable. I tell you, you just have to get used to it. Try to enjoy it. Eventually it will get better after you start understanding that it isn't that bad. This man is nothing. He's not a step-dad or boyfriend. He is as I put it, a stalker. My mother started out to be friends with him. Only reasons? For sex and drugs. This man has no life, he has no job. He moved into our home without being asked to. Then, he refused to leave. He finally did. He would call, literally, 50+ times a day. My mom didn't want to answer. My mom didn't like him besides those two things. He broke into our house while my mother was here. He threatened her. Cops were called, he was forced to leave. Not to mention he's stolen $500 worth of her jewelry. What'd she do? She didn't press charges, she didn't do a damn thing. He still threatens her. She's a fucking lost cause. She won't listen to anyone. Not even to her own mother who is dying. Or her brother or sister, not even me, my sister, or my brother. Not to mention there's a protection order out on me and my sister (where my parents separated and both were tested positive for drugs). So if she gets caught with a positive drug test, we are both gone. And honestly, she wouldn't give a shit. Thus is why I should most likely be moving in my brother in a few months.
Quote: from Let It Snow at 2:11 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 This guy that basically invaded our lives.. As I call him, my mom's stalker.The thing is that you shouldn't let anyone invade your life because after all it is your life and no one else's. That is the one thing we have and to have it "invaded" by someone else would be a waste. Is he like your step-father? What exactly do you hate about him? Don't be sad because your mom has got a boyfriend or married someone else. Sometimes you have to learn to look from the other person's perspective. Think about how your mom would feel if she didn't have anyone she could love and that could love her. Think about her too not just about yourself. Everyone needs some love and after all it is her life as well. You see, you can't go around telling your mom what to do with her life and what to not do, especially if it involves love. Sometimes we don't understand things like this until years later when we become a bit more dependent. It should not bother you that she likes someone. Everyone needs a second chance. Perhaps this makes her happy. You should tell her, that just like she has her life, you also have yours and if you don't want to share your life with "that man" then you should not have to, but you can't stop your mom from seeing him. I know it's hard! But you need to learn to find your own happiness. Try meeting other people and starting to have a more social life with others beside your family. Try to find love in some others if this is not working for you. I know that it is essential for us to have our parents' affection and I'm sure you have hers although you might not accept it. You might be depressed but you just have to learn to get used to that fact that your mom also needs someone else. Do it for her. Perhaps you can do nothing about it, but that does not mean you have to be sad. You also mention that you want to leave. You can use this as a way to motivate you. If you really want to leave that place then you must start now and try to be independent. School is essential if you hope to achieve this, but please don't feel miserable. I tell you, you just have to get used to it. Try to enjoy it. Eventually it will get better after you start understanding that it isn't that bad.
You also mention that you want to leave. You can use this as a way to motivate you. If you really want to leave that place then you must start now and try to be independent. School is essential if you hope to achieve this, but please don't feel miserable. I tell you, you just have to get used to it. Try to enjoy it. Eventually it will get better after you start understanding that it isn't that bad.
This man is nothing. He's not a step-dad or boyfriend. He is as I put it, a stalker. My mother started out to be friends with him. Only reasons? For sex and drugs. This man has no life, he has no job. He moved into our home without being asked to. Then, he refused to leave. He finally did. He would call, literally, 50+ times a day. My mom didn't want to answer. My mom didn't like him besides those two things. He broke into our house while my mother was here. He threatened her. Cops were called, he was forced to leave. Not to mention he's stolen $500 worth of her jewelry. What'd she do? She didn't press charges, she didn't do a damn thing. He still threatens her. She's a fucking lost cause. She won't listen to anyone. Not even to her own mother who is dying. Or her brother or sister, not even me, my sister, or my brother. Not to mention there's a protection order out on me and my sister (where my parents separated and both were tested positive for drugs). So if she gets caught with a positive drug test, we are both gone. And honestly, she wouldn't give a shit. Thus is why I should most likely be moving in my brother in a few months.
Well 'You'll both be gone'...it'll probably be the best thing for both of you. Drug addicts never realise anything until its too late..occasional they do and you leaving could be a wakeup call to your mum not to take u for granted.
Honestly, no it wouldn't. It's not like I'd be near here, and me and my sister would most likely be separated.
Cheer up. Only a permanent and deadly disease can "ruin your life" when you're a teen, though a lot of things seem like they do. Relax, it'll pass... "Everything ends eventually. And so does that."
"Everything ends eventually. And so does that."
And to topic author: Stop depending on other people and start depending on yourself...These people treat you like crap and its about time you made THEM do the work. And if they don't? Oh well. Fuck everyone else, do good in your studies good a good job then you can turn around and laugh at them...because YOU succeeded on your own. And please stop with the self pity...it won't do you any good...get up and take action, do something about it! Not for anyone else but for YOU...People won't change until they realise they have to, and sorry but it doesnt sound like their going to change any time soon.
I lived through refuges, 4 in about 2 months because my dad kept finding us...The bullying there is horrendous but oh well. I went though the continuous family deaths and suicides and continous drug abuse, personal abuse, visiting mental hospitals, always being told by them i would end up just like my dad, i would never amount to anything worth while...If i can stick all that and still manage to get to university.
So can you! And it doesn't have to be university. It can be anything. Get your focus to start making changes to your life, ignore the other fucktards, and do yourself proud.
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