Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic im so upset i dunno what to do :( Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Cherry Blossom Posted at 1:46 am on July 11, 2009 hey i dunno what to do anymore... me and my ex bf have been apart for about 2 and a half months now and i still love him :( i only just decided to block him and delete him from my messenger... ive tried this before but i always ended up adding him again :( i need to move on... but i dont know how to, ive done this because maybe its the only way to move on... no contact with him what so ever :( but he makes me feel like im blocking him out from everything :( i dont want to but i think i have to... im scared im gonna unblock him again :( i dunno if im doing the right thing or not anymore... i just wanna stop crying... i hate missing him :( without him there i feel like my life is just... empty... its hard to explain :( it just hurts so much... we were together for about 2 and a half years... we went through alot together... i dunno what else to say... i just wish i knew how to get past it all... its been over 2 months of feeling like this... im scared its not going to go away :( i dunno how long i can go having him blocked and deleted... i dont even know if this is going to help me or not *sigh*

Replies Silenced Posted at 2:13 am on July 11, 2009 If blocking him will help you get over him then you'll have to get through it. The worst thing you can do is block him for a while and then give in because it will hurt both of you and cause unneeded confusion. Just keep yourself occupied so your thoughts don't stray to him and it will go by faster. MoonLoveBaby Posted at 1:52 am on July 11, 2009 I dont know how to make it better for you, nor can I take away your pain love, but I can tell you that I was with my ex for almost three years, and we were engaged for two of those. When we broke up, it tore me up so badly that I felt empty. I cried for weeks on end, and to be terribly honest, it took me almost 7 months to fully get over it, and stop missing him, to realize that he was out of my life. Once you're with someone for so long, and have given so much of yourself to the same person, it takes a lot out of you. You cant be expected to bounce back from it right away. Its not humanly possible. You're doing alright, to have had the strength to delete and block him a few times already. You'll find that soon you wont feel the need to add him again. I feel you're actually quite a strong person who invested alot of yourself into this person. That's not a crime, nor should you judge yourself or be down on yourself for it. Its natural. Its human. You'll be fine :) Remember, it took me, literally, seven months to get myself sorted after my fiance and I broke up. If you need to talk to anyone, or still have things you want to get off your chest, pm me. I'm here :) All 2 previous replies displayed.