Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I just don't get it... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Uniq0ne Posted at 10:32 am on July 5, 2009 I'm 20 years old and... I've been with about 10 girls in my lifetime and not one of them ended up being my girlfriend. I live in a small town so finding girls worth my time takes awhile. And no I'm not picky, I just go with the flow and meet girls as I move along in life. My physical appearance is great, people often tell me I could be a model. My personality is amazing, I'm a hardcore gentleman and I strive the very best I can to make a girl happy. I'm very nice, caring, and loving. I'm like that "dream" guy every girl wishes she had. The last girl I was with was like the greatest person I have ever met. Apparently though she is still in love with an old ex-boyfriend that lives 2000 miles away. He is an uneducated gangbanger that treats women like shit. Every girl I meet ends up being with an inmature asshole, who doesn't know how to treat a woman. Why is it these assholes always find somebody who loves them back? Why is it that genuine sweet gentle loving kind men like me never find a single person who can love them back? (ok not everyone but im talking about me in particular.) I just don't understand... maybe I should just start acting like an immature bastard if that's what girls want... 20 years old gentleman and still no girlfriend... what is this world coming to?... All I want is to be loved back... why is it so damn hard...

Replies Uniq0ne Posted at 10:48 am on July 5, 2009 idk though... all this thrown in with major depression and having no life really make life seem not worth living... idk what i'm going to do /sigh WindChill Posted at 10:40 am on July 5, 2009 I feel ur pain dude. ily13107 Posted at 10:39 am on July 5, 2009 I know what you mean man. I think nowadays girls are more into crazy/party guys.  They don't care much about us guys who are willing to do basically anything to make them happy. Love...it's an amazing feeling.  It really is.  But when it's gone...it's the worst feeling in the world.  Emotional pain hurts more than physical pain.   Regardless, you seem like a cool person.  I'm sure you'll find a person soon.  You're still young.  You shouldn't even worry when you're 30!  Life is short, so live it man.  But still, when you find "that" girl, I wish you luck.  You'll find her.   peaceandlovebby Posted at 10:38 am on July 5, 2009 a lot of girls like the thrill of a "bad boy", and i guess they don't think that a gentleman can give them as much thrill as the jerks...;/ be more exciting? Brinkmannjg Posted at 10:38 am on July 5, 2009 Nice guys finish last...I found it to be pretty true unfortunately. It'll happen though. Aimforthehead Posted at 10:37 am on July 5, 2009 I feel ya' man, but it's not you...It's the girls, I think there's an epidemic of girls with screwed up mentalities that make them love being treated like shit. Not that straight forward, of course. Sqi 8000 Posted at 10:36 am on July 5, 2009 i feel your pain.. i'm just the same in personality... its hard i know.. but we keep searching return2me Posted at 10:33 am on July 5, 2009 i feel your pain. it will get better. All 8 previous replies displayed.