Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Should I be mad? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 12:21 pm on July 4, 2009 My boyfriend recently got a new job. He works alot, mornings through evenings and I work evening until late nights.. so although we see each other (like at night going to bed) but don't spend much time together. Last week, we both had the evening off--but he went up to the mountains with his best friend and five girls (three from work, two were brought by one of the girls) to go caving. Couple of days ago, we were supposed to go to the movies for discounted couples night at the theater. Well, he went bowling with the same five girls and a British dude from work. Then, two of the girls, Taiwanese girls, were leaving the next day so he called me right before the movie and basically begged me to not go to the movies that night but to throw them a going away party even though the initial plan was to stop by there after the movies. Well, he ended up still going to the movies but stayed at the girls' house until the very last minute and because of him, we were late for the movie and I had to drop off his friend for him. Then after the movie the Tai girls called him to come over, so we did.. and it was my first time meeting them. We played cards, drank beer and left. He has only known these girls for like, a week. The thing IS though is he gets mad and jealous when I text OUR friend who is in the guard, thousands miles away =\ Im not mad and dont want to be but at the same time, he is very flirtatious and does not think he is!

Replies kaylar28 Posted at 9:20 pm on July 4, 2009 You need to tell him exactly how you feel. Don't beat around the bush either. Because just like other people said, when he thinks he can walk all over you, he will continue to do so. If he gets jealous because you txt a long distance friends, but expects you to deal with him basically ditching you for some chicks, then he has some real problems, or he just wants to be in complete control and beable to do w.e without any consequences. nik1 Posted at 12:47 pm on July 4, 2009 The problem with a lot of girls is that put up with lack of considerations from the jerks.  Once the majority of males know that they get by with it they keep pushing and pushing until they have the benefits of being free and having a steady piece whenever they want it. YOU have created the monster and if you keep it up he will continue to disrespect you because he knows he can get by with it.  If you don't demand respect you will not get it.  When you state how you feel you need to stick to it until he is respectful.  A lot of girls are too needy, too dependent and invite to be treated like crap.  If he knows that you will leave him if he crosses the line he wouldn't think about doing something like he has done with these gals.   You have permitted him to treat you like a doormat.  Grow a backbone!  A relationship should be 50/50! xkristinaax Posted at 12:41 pm on July 4, 2009 It's understandable to want to say good bye to people moving away, but he's take it too far. Confront him and let him know that it isn't okay to do that to you. Total Destruction Posted at 12:22 pm on July 4, 2009 He has no right to be angry when you text your super long distance friend All 4 previous replies displayed.