Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic i could use some help here Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Miss Kaytee Posted at 3:38 pm on July 3, 2009 so i've been cutting for years and i can't seem to find a replacement for it. snapping the rubber band on my wrist doesn't seem to do shit. does anyone have a better idea of how i can replace cutting?

Replies Miss Kaytee Posted at 4:00 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from jham915 at 3:58 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Miss Kaytee at 6:55 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from jham915 at 3:54 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Miss Kaytee at 6:42 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from jham915 at 3:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Have you tried talking to a friend about it? That's what I did and that's the only thing that helped me. I tried to replace it with various things and never found something that would work, but my friends were able to help me control my urges and eventually stop altogether.       i've never really been able to talk to anyone about it...people just think i'm crazy   That's what I though for the longest time. It took me forever to tell most of my friends. I don't really know what they thought about it in particular, but they helped me a ton as far as recovering went and stood by me though many difficult days. I'm sure your friends will help you if you told them. I know it's difficult, but it's not impossible.    i guess considering that i go to a mental health school, people can't really be that judgemental there...most of the kids are there for cutting....still nervous about mentioning it to any of my friends though...../: That's understandable. It's not an easy thing to tell someone, especially a friend. yea, and it sucks. jham915 Posted at 3:58 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Miss Kaytee at 6:55 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from jham915 at 3:54 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Miss Kaytee at 6:42 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from jham915 at 3:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Have you tried talking to a friend about it? That's what I did and that's the only thing that helped me. I tried to replace it with various things and never found something that would work, but my friends were able to help me control my urges and eventually stop altogether.   i've never really been able to talk to anyone about it...people just think i'm crazy    That's what I though for the longest time. It took me forever to tell most of my friends. I don't really know what they thought about it in particular, but they helped me a ton as far as recovering went and stood by me though many difficult days. I'm sure your friends will help you if you told them. I know it's difficult, but it's not impossible. i guess considering that i go to a mental health school, people can't really be that judgemental there...most of the kids are there for cutting....still nervous about mentioning it to any of my friends though...../: That's understandable. It's not an easy thing to tell someone, especially a friend. Miss Kaytee Posted at 3:55 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from jham915 at 3:54 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Miss Kaytee at 6:42 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from jham915 at 3:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Have you tried talking to a friend about it? That's what I did and that's the only thing that helped me. I tried to replace it with various things and never found something that would work, but my friends were able to help me control my urges and eventually stop altogether.    i've never really been able to talk to anyone about it...people just think i'm crazy That's what I though for the longest time. It took me forever to tell most of my friends. I don't really know what they thought about it in particular, but they helped me a ton as far as recovering went and stood by me though many difficult days. I'm sure your friends will help you if you told them. I know it's difficult, but it's not impossible. i guess considering that i go to a mental health school, people can't really be that judgemental there...most of the kids are there for cutting....still nervous about mentioning it to any of my friends though...../: jham915 Posted at 3:54 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from Miss Kaytee at 6:42 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from jham915 at 3:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Have you tried talking to a friend about it? That's what I did and that's the only thing that helped me. I tried to replace it with various things and never found something that would work, but my friends were able to help me control my urges and eventually stop altogether. i've never really been able to talk to anyone about it...people just think i'm crazy That's what I though for the longest time. It took me forever to tell most of my friends. I don't really know what they thought about it in particular, but they helped me a ton as far as recovering went and stood by me though many difficult days. I'm sure your friends will help you if you told them. I know it's difficult, but it's not impossible. Miss Kaytee Posted at 3:45 pm on July 3, 2009 it seems to be the only thing that really helps me feel better when i'm depressed.... Sheebobee Posted at 3:43 pm on July 3, 2009 I haven't cut in months... I don't know how I stopped I just didn't feel like I needed it anymore Miss Kaytee Posted at 3:42 pm on July 3, 2009 Quote: from jham915 at 3:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Have you tried talking to a friend about it? That's what I did and that's the only thing that helped me. I tried to replace it with various things and never found something that would work, but my friends were able to help me control my urges and eventually stop altogether. i've never really been able to talk to anyone about it...people just think i'm crazy jham915 Posted at 3:41 pm on July 3, 2009 Have you tried talking to a friend about it? That's what I did and that's the only thing that helped me. I tried to replace it with various things and never found something that would work, but my friends were able to help me control my urges and eventually stop altogether. sexybrown0304 Posted at 3:40 pm on July 3, 2009 I remember my ex g/f had the same problem...and the answer is simple....you'll stop when you're ready...its like an abusive relationship, when you get tired of all the bull...you'll eventually stop. All 9 previous replies displayed.