Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I want to have a son with the one I love Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 1:13 am on July 10, 2009 But shes not ready  and I can tell. we are only 16 and 17. but weve been in love for the past 4 years and are always talking about it and shes so happy when  we do talk about it shes the happiest person in the world. how do I convince myself she is ready? Ive already planned a perposal and everything. but I still doubt sometimes. Help me please

Replies Shogun villimax Posted at 11:27 am on July 11, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:13 am on July 10, 2009 But shes not ready and I can tell. we are only 16 and 17. but weve been in love for the past 4 years and are always talking about it and shes so happy when we do talk about it shes the happiest person in the world. how do I convince myself she is ready? Ive already planned a perposal and everything. but I still doubt sometimes. Help me please Get you'r career on track now! because if you are gonna get married and start a family you are gonna need money! Chiefette Posted at 6:12 am on July 11, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 4:17 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from LilMissLeahLouise at 1:15 am on July 10, 2009 she isn't ready!.    Let her get an education and a job  and you sound dumb saying you want a son...  so if she had a little girl u wouldnt like her?  jee  grow up and wait till your ready think before you speak. we talked about a son first then a girl. think then speak You are aware that you cannot choose the gender of the child right? It is babyfever, let it pass, and when you are both of legal age, educated, and employeed, think about children. Oh, and don't propose, until you can spell proposal. JennyColada Posted at 5:08 am on July 11, 2009 Being happy about something doesn't mean that you are ready for it. Just because she may smile now at the thought of children doesn't mean that she is ready to have a child right now, and you shouldn't try to convince yourself of something that isn't true. AndreasMommy Posted at 3:01 pm on July 10, 2009 Wait. It doesn't matter if she's mentally ready, you also need to be ready financially. Babies cost alot. Diapers, wipes, clothing, formula, ect.. That shit adds up. & You have been in love since you were 12? Just wait a few more years, no big hurry. There's also a 50-50 chance that you will get a son. TheOtherHorseman Posted at 1:05 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 4:13 am on July 10, 2009 But shes not ready and I can tell. we are only 16 and 17. but weve been in love for the past 4 years and are always talking about it and shes so happy when we do talk about it shes the happiest person in the world. how do I convince myself she is ready? Ive already planned a perposal and everything. but I still doubt sometimes. Help me please You convince yourself she's ready by lying to yourselves. You're still incredibly young. Establish yourselves as individuals and as members of society before you create and train other human beings in those same things. MaryLin Posted at 12:29 pm on July 10, 2009 At least wait until you are legally an adult. You cannot even vote yet. SimplisticComplexity Posted at 11:03 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 4:17 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from LilMissLeahLouise at 1:15 am on July 10, 2009 she isn't ready!.    Let her get an education and a job  and you sound dumb saying you want a son...  so if she had a little girl u wouldnt like her?  jee  grow up and wait till your ready think before you speak. we talked about a son first then a girl. think then speak You didn't say that in your original post.  And besides, what if you got a girl before a boy?  Or two or three girls and no boys? Kaijuu Posted at 10:17 am on July 10, 2009 Don't do it. Don't fuck everything up. dunebug Posted at 10:12 am on July 10, 2009 Love waits. Cheezy, but true in this case. If you love her, let her have her youth. Let her be a teen and enjoy being selfish for a few more years. Let her finish her education easier and graduate with her friends. Don't be the douche who fucks it all up because you can't keep your babyfever under control and pushes her to have a kid before she's ready. When you BOTH are 18, talk about it again. Emmaaa Posted at 3:33 am on July 10, 2009 Heyyy Seriously, just enjoy being young :) Have kids when you're 20 or something, just enjoy being your age now :) xxxx Complex Kid Posted at 3:19 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:17 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from LilMissLeahLouise at 1:15 am on July 10, 2009 she isn't ready!.    Let her get an education and a job  and you sound dumb saying you want a son...  so if she had a little girl u wouldnt like her?  jee  grow up and wait till your ready think before you speak. we talked about a son first then a girl. think then speak ...Its not like you can just plan it out like that. You never know what will happen. You could get two boys, two girls, hell, you could just try for one more and end up with eight more. nikki Posted at 2:10 am on July 10, 2009 What's the rush? You're happy as you are, you don't need a kid and a ring to confirm that. xxAshIsAFreakk Posted at 1:26 am on July 10, 2009 ... Wait a few years dude. rancid freakin rawk Posted at 1:21 am on July 10, 2009 wait a few years... like another 4 imo JamesBrauman Posted at 1:20 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from guitargod1 at 1:14 am on July 10, 2009 dude. wait for a few more years Most recent 15 of 19 previous replies displayed.