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To be honest, it's kind of stupid saying that all men are like this, you just probably haven't met one yet. We are not blind and we have a brain, and to be honest, your generalisation on men probably puts them off too... stop being so attacking aginst men and actually look for one who suits you, whether you get to know friends of a friend or w/e. Seriously though, don't attack men in general because we aren't all like that.

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Life is hard. No one ever said it was going to be easy. But at the same time, its only has hard as you make it. I bet you're under 21. So at 21, not even close to half your life span, its gonna seem a bit hard. You've been struggling like everyone does since the age they hit 15.

It gets easier. It gets better.
Every day is a new day. You are the master of your own emotions. Persist until you succeed.

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Hey you. What you running from? All your hate.
What you've become. Bet you didnt think. It could
happen to you. All used up. Half way through. •þ¢®f¢ç†l'Flåw¢Ð•
NOTHING CAN STOP ME NOW!

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I would really love to explain to you why every guy is not the same. And why maybe the company you keep is not the company you want. It is wrong to jumble all guys in one group because of the past that you have had with losers who obviously dont know how to treat you right.  

Life is hard. No one ever said it was going to be easy. But at the same time, its only has hard as you make it. I bet you're under 21. So at 21, not even close to half your life span, its gonna seem a bit hard. You've been struggling like everyone does since the age they hit 15.  

It gets easier. It gets better.  
Every day is a new day. You are the master of your own emotions. Persist until you succeed.

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Before you go attacking the whole male population, have a good look at yourself. Yeah?

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Hold out for the ones you know will love you.

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Some one needs to grow up a little here.

Before you go attacking the whole male population, have a good look at yourself. Yeah?

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Quote: from Placebo Effect at 4:55 am on Aug. 16, 2009

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I would really love to explain to you why every guy is not the same. And why maybe the company you keep is not the company you want. It is wrong to jumble all guys in one group because of the past that you have had with losers who obviously dont know how to treat you right.

 Life is hard. No one ever said it was going to be easy. But at the same time, its only has hard as you make it. I bet you're under 21. So at 21, not even close to half your life span, its gonna seem a bit hard. You've been struggling like everyone does since the age they hit 15.

 It gets easier. It gets better.
 Every day is a new day. You are the master of your own emotions. Persist until you succeed.

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yeah u r right im 20.But sometimes when i see some of my friends live and enjoyin life, they r loved and me not.Of course id like that guy love my personality but mostly they like my appearnce.But then they begin to play with me like with doll and i want a normal relationships.Tired of bein lonely u know.

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I understand. And one way that I that I can think of to help your situation is this: You are truly only as good as the company you keep. If you want a guy who is nice, caring, compassionate, understanding of your feeling, takes in consideration of your emotions, thinks about you before himself, opens the door for you, and just plain listens to you, then you're going to have to put in work.

It takes a lot of work. The kind that is life changing. It takes you finding friends that you know care about you and (males) you spend time with you to enjoy your company rather then to enjoy your body/looks.
At 20 yrs old I would assume you know when a guy is in your presence for the wrong reasons.

If a guy starts up a converstaion with you and within the first ten minutes is talking about himself/his car/his ex's/or how hot you are/ or sexy you are. Then that isnt the kind of guy you want.

You want the guy who comes up to you cuz he heard you talking and is interested in more. Wants to know why you said, x, y, z about whatever subject. Hell you know what you want. Its obvious you want a caring man. Since you're not in school anymore it is much harder to find guys who are intellectual and caring, then just the punks at the club.

Maybe you're in college, idk. But if you are then try a class where you are interested in and see if their are any guys you are attracted too. Not just physical, but obviously on a little deeper connection. You may have to initiate something. But thats ok. Effort is key.
Dont jump into anything fast.

Its perfectly fine to be friends with some one and see how they treat you before putting in all your cards.
You see your friends....They might not have as easy of a life as you think, or as happy. Every one has problems and concerns. Its all in how you handle them.

Look at everything in a positive light and persevere. Dont give up. And dont give in.

Good luck.

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Hey you. What you running from? All your hate.
What you've become. Bet you didnt think. It could
happen to you. All used up. Half way through. •þ¢®f¢ç†l'Flåw¢Ð•
NOTHING CAN STOP ME NOW!

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To be honest, it's kind of stupid saying that all men are like this, you just probably haven't met one yet. We are not blind and we have a brain, and to be honest, your generalisation on men probably puts them off too... stop being so attacking aginst men and actually look for one who suits you, whether you get to know friends of a friend or w/e. Seriously though, don't attack men in general because we aren't all like that.

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