I tell her that I wouldn't be able to bear seeing her with another guy.

And she implies that she wouldn't like to see me with another woman.

But she's not ready to be tied down.

And with every day that passes I can feel myself caring more, and thinking more.

What If I inadvertently fall in love. What If this happens and she still isn't ready.

How long should I wait up for her, until she decides to finally come around.

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"If you wake up at a different time,
in a different place, could you wake up as a different person?"

The honest truth in my opinion. I think you should move on.

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We've seen those mountains kneeling, felten and grey
We thought our very hearts would up and melt away
vivere senza rimpianti

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It's not that she's not ready to be in a relationship, it's that she's not ready to be in a relationship with you. And probably never will be.

The honest truth in my opinion. I think you should move on.

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that hurts.

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"If you wake up at a different time,
in a different place, could you wake up as a different person?"

Did she say why she wasn't interested?

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"Life is a journey. Time is a river. The door is ajar."
On one issue at least, men and women agree; they both distrust women.

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I know, sorry. But I think it's the truth and she doesn't want to hurt you. If a girl really likes you, nothing is going to come in the way of you having a relationship. Don't let her keep leading you on, if you like, give her an ultimatum.

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That's a realization for me. I can't believe I never thought about it. It feels like someone stuck a knife in my heart.

uber depressed now.

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"If you wake up at a different time,
in a different place, could you wake up as a different person?"

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Go with the flow. If you fall for another girl, it's her loss, not yours. If nothing happens, don't chase after her because it won't change anything if she's uninterested in settling down.

Did she say why she wasn't interested?

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No she didn't say.

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"If you wake up at a different time,
in a different place, could you wake up as a different person?"

But like I said...if you fall for someone else, you won't have to deal with hurting over this girl. You'll be happy so that'd be a good thing, you moving on if this girl never wants to be with you. If you don't, well, this is how things will be then until you do or until she decides she actually wants you.

I know you can't imagine ever moving on but I've had crushes on so many guys in my life. There were two guys in elementary school. I got over the one by the fifth grade and liked the other until I was about 17 or so. And in middle school, there were a few guys that I thought were cute but in the end...nothing ever happened. I didn't date a single one of them. Hell, I didn't get my first real boyfriend until I was 19. Things just sort of work themselves out. All you have to do is try to be smart, try to do what you feel is best and if you don't allow anyone to treat you badly and you realize that you deserve to be loved and to be happy, you'll be fine.

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"Life is a journey. Time is a river. The door is ajar."
On one issue at least, men and women agree; they both distrust women.