wow... that's sad. You're acting like you're 40 and about to get a divorce.
I want a mate for life. not a fling. many my age are very..."sensual". I want substance. I almost fell into that habit of taking physical pleasure in place of possible love.
he's someone I could see living with in the far future, and not having any regrets. However, right now it's just so hard to figure out what would make him understand how I feel, without scaring him off.
I would rather be single than date someone who never talks to me. That's not substance, that's NOTHING AT ALL. You're so uptight.
You're dating a 47 year old? WTF he's about to die. And he's probably married already which is why you never see him.
I don't want to share my love life with multiple lovers. I want to give my heart to one person, and give him love and passion I wouldn't give to anyone else.
polyamory...I'd be too busy balancing love equally.
Well, it's not so much balancing so much as understanding.
But if that's not for you, then so be it... However, given the amount of time the guy you're with now has, you might want to try and find a chance to have a serious talk with him about the long-term potential of your relationship.
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wow... that's sad. You're acting like you're 40 and about to get a divorce.
I want a mate for life. not a fling. many my age are very..."sensual". I want substance. I almost fell into that habit of taking physical pleasure in place of possible love.
he's someone I could see living with in the far future, and not having any regrets. However, right now it's just so hard to figure out what would make him understand how I feel, without scaring him off.
I would rather be single than date someone who never talks to me. That's not substance, that's NOTHING AT ALL. You're so uptight.
You're dating a 47 year old? WTF he's about to die. And he's probably married already which is why you never see him.
I doubt he's married. his boss has seen us together on the first day we had coffee together. I highly doubt it. and all the employees at the coffee shop who personally knew him heard us talking about things only those dating would talk about.
3:08 am on Oct. 24, 2009
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and he's not about to die. he's very healthy! I wouldn't be surprised if he lived to 100 or more.
3:09 am on Oct. 24, 2009
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Dont go with a guy who never have time for you
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You're dating a 47 year old? WTF he's about to die. And he's probably married already which is why you never see him.
Ok seriously? What the fuck. 47 isn't that old anymore, if it ever was. You've got a very twisted view of life expectancy. And yeah, you can look pretty good and be fit all the way into your 70s if you take care of yourself (dependent on genetics and illness of course, but still), and that's improving all the time assuming the health systems don't collapse.
Secondly, if he was married I HIGHLY doubt he would be seeing her.
3:14 am on Oct. 24, 2009 | Joined: April 2005 | Days Active: 422 Join to learn more about StormblazerColorado, United States | Label FreeMale | Posts: 9,864 | Points: 16,392
Why the hell would you try to save a relationship with a guy who doesn't make time for you?
because I'm lonely enough as it is. to call it off...it took so long for me to muster up the courage to date again. and this guy is very mature...but very wrapped up in his work. I don't want to tell him his work is the problem, especially since it's what drives him.
if there is any chance things wind down in the next month or two, I want to wait. but until then, I wish I had the courage to tell him I want to see him more...and not just at the coffee shop. I want to watch movies with him. I want to take walks with him, and watch whatever nature is going on while in his arms.
I'm too tired, and too lonely to start over, though it wouldn't be a far fall.
Mr/Ms anonymous. If you're lonely GET SOMEONE. Make sense. Problem solved.
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