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jsia
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Do you see yourself being away from her? You've been together for a long time, maybe you just need to spice things up a bit? Try something new. Be (mostly) honest with her, tell her you want to do something to get things kicking again like when you first got together. Don't just cut all ties off with the poor girl out of the blue without at least warning her, or trying to fix it first.
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Me break the rules? No,i test their elasticity.
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1:52 am on Oct. 20, 2009 | Joined: Aug. 2006 | Days Active: 258
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kimyurix3
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I was in something to that effect.. well not really, but i had to break up with my bf who i'd been with for 2 yrs when he really needed me, but i couldn't do it.. it took me months to do it.. it's going to hurt the other person no matter what.. it'll probably hurt you too, it crushed me.. but he wouldn't have been able to move on if i hadn't ended it completely.. it'll take time, but if you truly don't want the relationship anymore you have to do it..
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I was afraid of that...any tips on ways to do it with the least amount of pain? i mean I know its gonna hurt but if i can avoid even 1% i would take it
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1:55 am on Oct. 20, 2009 | Joined: July 2005 | Days Active: 351
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Placebo Effect
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Quote: from Hyacinth at 1:51 am on Oct. 20, 2009
 Quote: from Placebo Effect at 6:20 pm on Oct. 20, 2009
I am sorta in the same position, but I am in love with her. Just bored. 
Just as an off-side piece of advice, if you are bored, spice it up now, as she might be getting bored too. Keep the romance and fun alive!
Ty. It's just hard ya know. I am working 40 hours a week and she is in school. We are at two different parts of our lives. I don't mind being here and watching us go further. Its just that some times I feel as if things might be better....Idk Im sorry. Im blabbing. I cant even think of what to say. I am just tired. Busy. Exhausted. And stressed. But I have to look like I am calm, cool, and collected. All I want to do is make these next few months just pass by me. But i forget I am holding someones feelings in my hands as I sorta fall into my routinely day to day slump. Work, sleep, eat, dog, Work, eat, sleep, dog. Work eat sleep dog then her. and then back to the same old stuff. Maybe i'll take her to outback this weekend. that sounds fun.
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Dealing out the agony within.
Charging hard and no ones gonna give in.
Living on your knees, conformity.
Or dying on your feet for honesty.
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