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Is going out with a 20 year old gross if your 16?
Replies: 19Last Post Nov. 28, 2009 8:45am by IceKing
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So yeah I'm going out with my bf whose 20 years old but my family has known him since he was younger and he's a nice guy....
But yeah my parents are ALWAYS never home they work night shifts since my mom and dad are both nurses and they work like 12 hours a day.....oh and I am
only child too, but I'm a good kid, no drug record, good grades...

and he sometimes comes over to my house....but he knows and he's not the type of guy to force me to have sex or anything like that...We just hang out in my living room
But yeah, we've been together for 7and a half months and it's been great...
But is it wrong that I have him over at my house 3 times a week??

We just hug and kiss but nothing gross or wrong.....
So yeah I need your guys opinion please!? :)


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depends

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Not at all.

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Not REALLY gross.
But not exactly normal either.

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There isn't much of a problem.  Soon enough you'll be a 18 year old dating a 22 year old...

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What do you mean by nothing gross? Lol. Sex is not gross :o

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No. I'm 16 too. My last bf was 19 and the guy I am talking to now is 23 ( I know that he's too old. I'm not going to date him)

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It isn't wowed I went out with a guy twelve years older then me when I was thirten

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Yeah

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Depends, are you closer to 3 or 4 years apart? O.o

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Eh, nothing's wrong with that imo. I'm 19 and my bf is also 4 years older but I guess that's a diff case.

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It really depends on the two people.  I was dating my boyfriend when he was 21 and I was 17 (I had recently turned 17 as well).  Either way, I'm 20 now and he's 24...

The thing with the age gap is your points in life.  You're still in school, he should be done highschool, maybe going to college.  When he's 21, maybe he'll want to be more social at a bar, but then you can't go.  Maybe he hopes to have children when he's 25, but you would still be in college if you plan on going.  Maybe he's ready for sex soon, and you still feel you're too young.

I don't think there's anything bad with having him around the house.  If you both have an understandin of what you expect to do, and the like, then there shouldn't be a problem.

All in all, it's your call.  I can't say it's bad or good, it depends on the two individuals.  Like I said, my own boyfriend is slightly over 4 years older than I am.  But we're very compatible.

Just make sure you're both on the same page in terms of the relationship, and things should be alright.


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