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 Replies: 9 — Last Post Nov. 3 11:15am by rshafe01
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I found out on Sunday that my boyfriend had used Ecstasy on Saturday.
I hung out with him on Saturday and I could tell something was up, but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. When I asked him what he took, he told me honestly outright. I didn't know how I felt. I was mad at first but then realized that if I had the opportunity to try it, I can't say that I would say "No". I would be really curious too. But I am really worried that he is going to start getting deeper into drugs and things like that.
He's been smoking weed a lot and while that doesn't necessarily concern me, I worry about him getting caught. Same with his underage drinking.
Both of these activities are becoming a more often occurrence for him and he's also begun smoking cigarettes a lot more often. I'm having trouble letting him know how I feel about it.
I don't want to be the nagging, bitchy girlfriend that is constantly telling him what to do with his life. At the same time I'm really worried about all of this and it makes me feel really sick when I don't say anything to him.
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ang42490424
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Well, you wouldnt really be the nagging, bitching gf if you tell him honestly about how you feel once. Just in one time and place where you can sum up the courage to tell him and express how you feel. He should take your feelings into consideration too.
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sexy shawty queen be
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i would just let him know how you feel, tell him your not trying to nag or sound like a bitch, but you care about him, and thats why you have to tell him... if you didnt' care, you wouldn't say anything...
if anything, yu too shuld just smoke some trees together and talk about it... i mean, i'm sure everyone is going to try their variety of drugs once or twice in their lives... just make sure you let him know how you feel, and tell him yu don't want him to get addicted to anything...
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ninxy1029
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OH Christ another judy.... (my friends gf).... yea....shes trying to make her bf stop smoking weed... Haha pathetic... stop telling us what to do... damnit.. we'll do wht we want got it? lmfao
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MustardMan661
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Just tell him straight up like he told you. Tell him you don't mind the smoking, but to stay away form hard drugs?
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Rickenbacker
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Just talk to him! You don't seem judgmental, in the least bit. You sound like all you want is in his best interest. I have never taken Ecstasy, so I can't tell you if it is harmful or not, but tons of evidence points that MDMA (found in ecstasy drugs) is safe. As for Cannabis, it is relatively harmless if done in moderation. Underage drinking is dangerous if done in binge-drinking, but relatively harmless if done in moderation (2 or 3 drinks). I could find literature that supports it, but I'll let you do that. I speak from experience (I am 21 years old-- I only get on the Drugs Forum on this site since it is mainly for kids haha).
If I had a girlfriend who was concerned and did not know what I was really up to, I would listen to you and talk about it in a civil manner.
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OH Christ another judy.... (my friends gf).... yea....shes trying to make her bf stop smoking weed... Haha pathetic... stop telling us what to do... damnit.. we'll do wht we want got it? lmfao
